Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Why has my crush gone cold on me after over a year of intense flirting? What happened? I have to see him every day and I can't stand it. Guys, help!?
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My guy friend was all over me for over a year, messaged me all summer, texted me tons, claimed we were already in an intimate relationship, was super touchy feely, told me all his fears and secrets, told me all about his sex life, asked me details about mine and said I love you tons of times. I've given him lots of rides and it seemed like we were almost going to kiss a few times when I dropped him off at his house but it was just awkward hugging and face touching. Lately he's been pulling away from me and I have no idea why. He used to hug me every day, now once in a while he'll hug me and say that I "get a hug", like it's charity or a favor. Last time I went to hug him he made a face but hugged me back. He said it was because I initiated it and it wasn't on his mind. But he hugs other people right in front of me, guys mostly or girls I know he doesn't like. He knows I love him and he has to know I'm attracted to him. He used to stare in my eyes all the time with the dopey love look but now he'd rather look at his phone. He still grabs my forearm to make a point and sits next to me in class but I feel like our sexual tension just dropped dead overnight. I don't understand what happened. It seemed like we were on the verge of getting somewhere. Last week he said I was pretty and have great hair and he's usually staring at my chest. He's made it clear there are no other girls in school that he likes and makes yech noises if anyone says he should date them. He's always being raunchy around me but told me yesterday that he'd never actually joke about having sex with a girl he'd seriously want to sleep with because it would be tacky. So today this other boy in our class came and sat on his lap. They like to act gay for some reason. Then my crush asks me if I want to have a threesome with him and the guy on his lap. I said sure and laughed but, going by what he already said, that means he isn't actually interested in me that way or he'd never joke about it.
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