Kind of, but it's not the end of the world. I'm not sure why people view it with such reproach and disgust. Sex isn't evil when it's not with your boyfriend, lol. I mean, it's not like you're hurting anyone. Pretty much the opposite.
I also think the idea that you're not respecting yourself by doing that is a backwards concept. You are respecting yourself if you're living your life honestly, according to your values and what you think is right or wrong. Know that there will always be people who think you're slutty. You can wait on giving your boyfriend a blowjob for a year, and I guarantee you, some people will think you're slutty for that. Should have waited until you were married. Gosh, have some self-respect!
Anyway, it's up to you. Everyone should have their own rules and boundaries that they go by. If you're having doubts and think it'll make you feel bad, then I wouldn't. You'll probably regret it in that state. Really think about why you would feel bad and if it makes sense that you do, though.
Oh, also, would you think he's a slut for accepting it? Or if he gave you oral, would you think less of him for that? Just stuff to ponder.
haha I probably would think less of him if he tried to give me oral! makes me uncomfortable! its an intimate experience to me
I see, so is giving oral to him not as intimate then?
Blow jobs themselves aren't slutty, but giving them to random strangers isn't something you should just go around doing.
If he didn't get the blowjob the first night because people walked into the room, he wants to hang around again only because he knows you were willing and he wants the blowjob. Chances are he has already told a few friends about the easy girl he almost got the blowjob from at a party.
Lol oh no... He sounds like the type of guy to spread word to his pals about u blowing him. He's gonna humiliate u. He is the ultimate slut bitch himself esp when he asked u for it , while meeting him for the first time.
If you don't know the guy very well and are not in a relationship with him, then yes it is slutty. Particularly if it is not in private.
On the other hand if he is a boyfriend of some time, in private, then it is a wonderful thing to do for a man who you have serious affection for, and that is how he would think.
So don't devalue yourself or this particular demonstration of affection. Give it some value.
Sluttyness is a matter of who, not what.
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If the tables were turned, and I was in your place, with a girl, I wouldn't go down on her in front of other people, becuase I would think she would be uncomfortable, and I don't want her to feel embarrassed, or uncomfortable.
Privately, I would do anything that I can to make her wet, giggle, and smile, loving it!!
It doesn't matter, it's just a blow job, give one if you want, or don't if you don't want to.
Slutty seems to me to be a gal that gives sex to many strangers w/ or w/o money payment
I was surprised that his simple request got such a strong yes reaction, was it the way he asked, looked, etc?
Have you said yes to others similar?
Yeah I thought he was hot but no I am really bad with boys haha. I just got out of a two year relationship and I've only given oral to one other guy besides my ex
So far, not slutty then - of course but at least get a dinner out of it? ;)
Its not 'slutty' if you want to do it. Since you aren't comfortable with it, it means you shouldn't be doing it in any case (although its doesn't make you slutty).
Wow, i wonder why i got so many downvotes! :P
Well considering that you met the guy, you made out and you agreed to giving him a BJ (all in one night I guess?) I would say yes that is slutty..
Yeah when you just met a guy, barely know or not his last name but you have his dick in your mouth after just meeting him an hour or two at a party is slutty. BJs themselves aren't slutty, it's who, when and where at that can make it slutty.
In the scenario you described 'at the party' it would have been slutty, since you just met him. You can catch STD's like that and only 'sluts' give it out that easy.
If he was someone you know and trust like your BF then its a different story.
I know of him but I didn't meet him until that night
Still a little 'slutty' considering you dint't know him well enough. A blow job should be a very intimate thing for a girl and you shouldn't just give them out because a guy asked for it. Plus you can get a bad reputation like that... (a slutty reputation). Make him earn it after all you are pleasuring him.
Whatever 2 consenting adults do between themselves is fine. If he doesn't like it, he won't consent to it.
slutty or promiscuity is all very subjective. what say a virgin may consider promiscuous a person who's had a lot of sex may consider prudish. ultimately you should do what you are comfortable with and not be overly concerned with what other people think.
do you want to give him a blow job? yes or no
should be the only thing you should consider
Don't be silly. Just do with him what you want to do with him.
No. If you both like each other, blowjob is not a big deal.
So ignore the following slut comments below, no it's not slutty, it's just oral sex. You should be more focused on how comfortable you are personally about it, and also take in consideration if he's clean or not. People will try to make you out into something you're not which is a lot of pressure, but you would feel so much better knowing you made your own decision based on what you think.
If he isn't your boyfriend then yeah he's probably just gonna see you as a slut if you do it.
If he's not your boyfriend, that's extremely slutty. You just met him, come on now. Have some self respect. :/
Blow jobs are not slutty if given to someone you're in a relationship with. They can be considered slutty if given to someone you barely know at a party. That being said, I'm sure the guy you blew isn't complaining :)
I didn't blow him
Oops I guess I didn't read that right... disregard that last sentence
You made the right choice, I can almost guarantee if you blew him that he would tell people. Then people will come to you expecting free blow jobs rather than trying to be in a relationship with you.
I think of it as intimacy. And if your both willing then a great idea. The only way it becomes slutty is if your blowing several men at the party. Ir if your doing it for monetary gain of some sort. Which in this case clearly doesn't sound that way. Im sure he will he would love more.
Do you. If you just want sex from this guy than you shouldn't care, but if actually want to know this guy than you probably shouldn't do it. Also girls don't know this, but guys talk terrible about a girl to their friends and brag when they are about or had sex with a girl.
Personally not on a first date.
Giving a blowjob doesn't make you "slutty". Being willing to do it so fast and easily makes people think you're "slutty". I would be wary of wanting to hang out because it would seem that he just wants that blowjob or more, but if that's what you want as well then by all means go for it.
If blowjobs are slutty, then intercourse is too. And no, they're both not.
If you feel comfortable with giving him a blowjob and think you'd enjoy it, then just go for it and have a good time. :)
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