How to tell my boyfriend I want to be tied up?

Question

What is the best way to go about mentioning to my boyfriend that I would absolutely love to try bondage and want him to tie me up and have his way with me?

zb69kos · Accepted Answer

First ask him... what do you like most being submissive or being dominant. ... then this will lead you to the right way. if he is not sure... then try it. if he is dom. then very good... if he is sub. then you have do discuss the issue openly... see my previous question
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1193560-sexually-point-of-view-girls-do-you-like-submissive-boys-guys-do
if you succeeded please let me know.

VulcanHades · Accepted Answer

The best way is to tell him exactly that. In a literal manner.

Any other subtle way of trying to communicate with your boyfriend will result in you getting mad because he couldn't decrypt your weird subliminal messages during the act.

laura37_87 · Accepted Answer

Buy a police uniform, a really naughty one with handcuffs. Wear it one night and bring out the handscuffs. I'm sure he'll use his imagination! :)

wishfire10 · Accepted Answer

Try a note, sometimes its harder to say something like that in person.

pennyroyaltea · Accepted Answer

put the equipment on the bed before he walks in lol

Red_Dove · Answer

Surprise him! He'd be delighted!

islands7 · Answer

Lead by example, gal THEN it will be YOUR turn

chocalou · Answer

tell him seductively

oolala18 · Answer

I would say lead by example. Do it to him then order him to do it to you. Dominatrix style

Tunakid · Answer

Just say you wanna try new things in bed, if he's like every other guy he will probably be down with it.

vet31bSoldier · Answer

"Hey mother fucker, get those cuffs and get your ass over here!"

ilovesexyfeet · Answer

Tell him u had the most erotic dream about him. Tell him he became all masterful and kept u as his sex slave. In your dream he took u to the bedroom tied your hands and legs to the bed posts and softly whipped u and dripped candle wax over your nipples. With a loose piece of the rope he flicked your pussy catching your clit and kept going harder and harder and rather than screaming and wanting to be untied, u were so excited by it that u had the most intense orgasm ever. When he finally entered u, pressing down on your throat with his hand and slapping your tits with the other hand, u squirted like never before and found it so amazingly erotic. Tell him that being helpless while he licked your dripping pussy fingering and fisting it was such a turn on that u woke up from the dream all wet and horny for him.

He'll either run a mile or have the rope ready before even finish telling him about the dream haha

TadCurious · Answer

Go to the store and get some of those toy handcuffs. And some thin rope. Put 'em in a box and wrap it up and give it to him with a note that say: "I'm yours."

reptocarl · Answer

"Honey I would like to try bondage. Tie me up and have your way with me" will work

AdamThomas · Answer

Just tell him and ask him if he'd want to try it.

countrydude · Answer

I would suggest being strait forward. Let himknow that this soundss fun. Or you can start conversation off by asking him what things. He wants to try.

edgyfox · Answer

Give him some rope and/or tape and hold your hands out to him to start tying you up. Don't say anything unless he asks.

kep79 · Answer

i will hold you down and have my way with you, pretty

TheAshCooper · Answer

Show him what you want

JustuinMMG · Answer

just bring it up in bed! because he will already be in the mood and he will already be horny so it may make him agree to it, but he probably wants to try it too haha