Whats the difference between grinding (in bed or seated), dry humping, and a lap dance?

Is there even a difference between the three or is it the same thing?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Not all lap dances involve grinding/dry-humping - hell, some places don't even allow any physical contact! But, yes, some lap dances do involve grinding.

    But otherwise, grinding and dry-humping are much the same thing, except dry-humping is usually more horizontal, while grinding can be done sitting or even standing (such as on the dance floor). Either one involves the rubbing of genital areas together while clothed.

  • Grinding and dry humping are basically the same as it is simulated sex but with clothes on (grinding you might not have clothes on). A lap dance is totally different and incorporates a more seductive vibe and fluid movements to it, as it is a dance. VERY few girls can do this well without looking dumb, and it is more likely better to be left to professionals (ex. strippers) lol

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  • Grinding can be with or without clothes
    Dry humping is with clothes on
    Lap dance can be with or without clothes

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  • They're different. Grinding is a sexual dance, dry humping is just humping with your clothes on and a lap dance is a dance where you take your clothes off, lol.

  • Lap dancing is more of a teasing thing, i'm guessing it stems from sensual dances like Bachata and Salsa (of which i do i might add) Grinding and Dry humping and kinda one in the same (basically sex with clothes on (ofc no penetration)

  • A guy normally has to pay for a lap dance, and isn't allowed to participate. He just sits there as the girl does all the work.

  • They're all pretty similar. In each case it's a way to tease a guy and get him aroused. Why do you ask?

    • My guy and I dry hump all the time. But I saw a video of a girl giving a "lapdance" and it was basically her and the guy dry humping.

    • Nice! Do you only dry hump, or do you take him out too?

    • I do whatever it takes to make him a very, very happy man ;)

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