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Said horrible things to my boyfriend when I was drunk?

Last night I was stressed and in a really bad mood, and I said some really mean things to my boyfriend. We are both 22 and have been dating about 6 months. I told him that he was like a 4 at best (which is not true at all), I criticised his height, and I said I was only dating him for his money. As well as a couple of other things. Eventually he got up to leave but before he did he asked if I was being serious, and I told him that "of course I am, just fuck off". He looked so hurt. Ohh God, I feel so bad. These are things which he is really self conscious about. He has dated other girls, but I am his first real relationship. He waited to lose his virginity and we did it a few weeks ago. Just tell me what I need to do. PLEASE!! I didn't mean any of it, I was drunk.
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  • To be honest, if my boyfriend would say stuff like that to me, I'd make sure I'd get the hell out and hope not to see or hear him for at least a month. You just used all his insecurities against him, and as his girlfriend that's a horrible thing. But okay, I guess you know that by now. I do agree with vet31bSoldier here that "I was drunk" is a lame excuse, it always is to me but okay, maybe your boyfriend thinks differently about that.

    What I would do is I'd get my ass over at his place asap to try and work things out, minimize the damage that's been done and see if he can forgive you or at least try to move on from it.

  • I completely agree with DodgersGM, you messed up so bad, I'm not sure I'd give you a second chance if I were him. They sounded like some really cruel things to say. Perhaps you and alcohol should part ways for a good while.

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  • I see two things you need to do: 1) go apologize to him as sincerely and fully as you can, on your knees, the whole works, and 2) tell him you want him to discipline you so you can forgive yourself. That you need and hot, long, hard bare bottom spanking plus whatever else he wants to do to you. Tell him a safe word that you'll use if he goes to far but don't use it unless you absolutely have to. This presumes you'll feel better if you pay for what you did with your ass.

  • Wow, that's pretty messed up. Honestly, if I wasn't super invested in the relationship I would probably consider leaving you for that.

    You had better apologize profusely, take a good long look at yourself and figure out why you did that, and just pray that he forgives you and wants to reconcile.

    • Thanks, and good luck!

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  • That just kept getting worse and worse. Little else you can do other than sitting him down and apologizing. Though it will help, you will have to address the comments you made because they are likely ones he will take to heart given his insecurities.

  • Yeah, the "I was drunk" doesn't cut it. Woulf that excuse work if one of you cheated on the other? Give him space and in a few days try contacting him. And base what you do next on how he is acting.

    He might be done. Your relationship is fairly new and maybe he will view this as a harbinger of things to come. Id suggest taking a break from drinking, as well.

    Good luck.

  • If you start using insults during an argument, it will get you into places you can never get out of.
    That's just one of the rules of communication.

  • You attacked his very soul. It's a huge betrayal on the order of cheating. If you have a pattern of out-of-control behavior while drinking then you must not ever drink if you hope to win him back.

    You should text him with something like "I'm so sorry for being such a horrible bitch. I need so much to talk to you. Please call me." And wait for him to respond.

  • It doesn't matter if you were drunk, you're still a gigantic bitch. I certainly wouldn't tolerate it if I was him; i'd never talk to you again.

  • First off, stop using "I was drunk" as an excuse. Drunk or not, it is no excuse to be a royal bitch to someone for no reason.

    Second, when you are drunk, inhibitions are lowered, which makes it easier to say things you subconsciously think. Ya ya ya I know. "I don;t think that and I feel so effing bad!! like OMG!" Ya, got it. you still said it. End of story.

    Third, leave him the fuck alone until HE is ready to talk to YOU.

    Fourth... quit fucking drinking.

    • Couldn't have said it better.

  • It happens.

    Less well learned about getting too intoxicated and doing something you regret.

    Now is the time to apologize, communicate your feelings and make reparations. That's all you can do.

  • If he forgives you after all that, he loves you and you better not do that shit ever again.

    If he doesn't, then learn from it and maybe stop drinking as much.

  • He's probably never going to get 'she thinks im a 4' out of his mind from now on. you are going to have to keep reassuring him that he is really good looking and hope he's cool.

    Seriously if a guy seriously called you fat, how would you feel even if he was drunk?

  • The being drunk thing doesn't excuse anything. And if that was me in his shoes I would have dump you right then and there.

  • If you act that way when drunk, don't drink. As far as making it up to him, you'll have to put in a lot of time and effort.

  • Lol thats messed up, you better make it up to him, I dont think a simple "sorry i was drunk" is going to work

  • That would the end of it for me. Save your apologizes I'm not intrested in hearing them.

  • You are a jerk... And i hope he leaves you, You took his virginity and told him this soon after, he probably lost trust for you. Do him a favor and end the relationship you just ruined all of his future relationships by fueling his insecurities, he also will treat his future girlfriends as objects because all they want is his money. Best of luck with your future relationships hope they tell you all they wanted was to have sex with you. and that you are unattractive. I don't care how drunk and upset you are that is childish and mean, maybe you should try being more mature and stop getting drunk.
    This happened to me to. it ruined so many of myfuture relationships.

  • LOL you're fucked.

  • You must apologize profusely and take back everything you said. Then, have sex with him.

    • Honestly she can apologize, but she can't take it back. Once it's been said it's out there.

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