What's the best and fastest way to make a girl cum?

[Anonymous]

Me and my girlfriend only had sex a few times (LDR). The first few times we couldn't make each other cum. She felt very ashamed when's she couldn't make me (she wasn't a virgin but I was). Finally she made me cum bit I couldn't make her. I fingered her on her g spot, pulled back her labia and rubbed/licked her clit fast for a long time until my fingers and jaw got tired. She moaned and contracted and twitched and got very wet but she would NOT cum. She was my first but I've seen enough p*rn to know what I'm doing. She says she's able to orgasm through masturbation (which she never shows me) but I just could not make her cum. The guy she was with before me (for 13 months) never made her cum either. She also stops me when i rub her clit directly and tells me its way too sensitive/intense. She's only ever had orgasms from masturbation. What is the quickest and easiest way to make a girl orgasm? Also how can i rub her pussy in a way that will make her cum quickly without overwhelming her?

[Anonymous]

The challenge is to give her enough stimulation when she needs it. And although the odds of orgasm seem highest for a girl when she masturbates we can do things for her that she can't do alone. My routine for getting her to come the quickest is to "four-finger" her, while I suck at one nipple and massage the other breast. Hitting all the hot spots, so to speak. Four-fingering involves the first and second in her vagina curled to her G-spot, my thumb at her clit and my ring finger shallowly fingering her anus. Once the foreplay (erotic massage) has aroused her and gotten her wet, this routine will cause her to come in a few short minutes. There are mini-techniques you develop at all three places, but once you have perfected them, her orgasms can be immediate and awesome. Just remember. Clean hands, clipped nails and plenty of lotion. She should not worry about looking or feeling awkward, self conscious or seeming self-centered. If this is an issue, do it with the lights off.

Just give yourself over to it.

[serp777]

Use two fingers in her pussy quickly while using your tongue to like around her clit.

[Asker]

I did that

[Mgoods]

Guessing games won't work. She has to be the one to direct you and tell you exactly what works for her and what doesn't.
Go down on her and tell her to instruct you on what feels good- she needs to be more vocal about it.
Failing that, stick your index and middle fingers in her mouth- tell her to do to your fingertips, what she wants done to her clit- then mimic it.
When her legs start to shake a little, add on more pressure and go as fast as you can- don't let up, till she cums.

[LastGirlScout]

Get her to rub herself when you're fucking her. That way you get to see what she's doing and fuck her as she cums. It's probably to do with her, not you. Sounds like she isn't quite able to mentally relinquish control and let you bring her to climax. Give it time, not pressurising her and just continuing to enjoy each other is the best remedy.

[nothingtosee]

I would suggest you two do some role playing. For example, ask her to play the part of a sex-ed professor and you're her student. In this class she's going to teach you how to give her an orgasm. Have her show and teach you how to lick her the way SHE wants, not the way you want. Have her teach you how to give her a handjob the way she wants it done. Have her teach you how to make her cum using a vibrator. Have her take her time and show you and make you practice. And, tell her she has to give you LOTS of direction. Also, purchase a couple of vibrators and/or dildos.

I guarantee you, after a dozen or more classes, she'll be comming frequently! I know because I once had a girlfriend who never had an orgasm. So I suggested the same thing to her and she loved it. She made me practice and practice and practice! When I finally made her cum, she turned into a nympho!!!

Good luck, you'll get there!!

[WhySoComplicated]

Be intuitive with her. If it don't work for her then she won't come to an orgasm.

[JackRabit]

Pound her from on top w a sizeable cock for a while... then raise it up to angle down on her clit... get as deep strokes as possible. ... she'll cum@

[James19]

Learn giving oral well

[GMANN56]

And you know the strangest part? What may work like a charm this week, does nothing for her next week.

[Anonymous]

Clit stim

[Anonymous]

Pound her hard and fast while calling her a whore. :-D