How should a girl moan? (please don't flag serious question)?

[Anonymous]

Okay well, im not sexually active and won't be for awhile, but my friend is a virgin just like me and is curious how she should sound. im pretty shy.. and she is more outgoing than me. She has a very high voice almost sounds like an anime character to be honest lol and she is unsure if she moans if it will sound weird or not mature enough. please dont tell me "oh you're too young to have sex" yes, she knows and i know, im waiting I've tried to convince her she won't listen so i cannot control her.. Please just help her because if she asks me one more time about this im going to blow my head off! thank you.

[kabooms]

The most concrete advice you will hear is to just be natural with moaning. Most men prefer a woman to be genuine in her moans and to not just moan for its own sake. There are two reasons for this: it helps the man with reliable feedback and it is more satisfying to a man. If one is faking moaning, it makes it harder for a man to tell what is working for his partner. Communication is key to good sex. As for satisfaction, lots of men, myself included usually can spot fake moans or at least moans that sound faker than we know them to be. This is often a big turn off for guys.

As to your question about the high pitched voice, she should do what comes naturally in her voice. If a guy hated her voice, he probably wouldn't be that intimate with her. Furthermore, if she is greatly varying the pitch of her voice when she moans, it will be an obvious fake moan bringing the problems cited above. Remember, moaning is a vocalization of labored breathing that is for the most part involuntarily made audible. It is SUPPOSED to be in your natural voice.

Tell your friend she has nothing to worry about with her voice.

[Anonymous]

Um... she doesn't HAVE to moan. Whispering "oh my god oh my god oh my god" or "oh boyfriend oh boyfriend oh boyfriend" works, too. So does whimpering with a face all scrunched up from the intensity. I don't think there's a 'mature' moan or anything. As long as she's not saying 'oh daddy, please...' I think that's covered (and there are guys who would get off on that, too, so... you know... everyone is different).

She should sound like herself. (I mean, she'll be with someone who likes her, right?)

If she's not going to wait, she IS going to use condoms (and perhaps also hormonal birth control or an IUD as backup) right?

[Asker]

my friend is horny not stupid lol she is going to use protection

[Opinion Owner]

No offense intended :) I was just visiting a friend who had an unplanned baby... Seeing how much it's consumed her life, I was in a mood to trumpet birth control!

[Asker]

I can understand that, Thank you :)

[QueenNikki]

A girl shouldn't force herself to make a noise! Sex takes focus so if all your focus goes towards moaning instead of feeling then he'll finish before you and u'll be left with nothing. If a noise comes out, then it shouldn't be one you planned to make. Dont you know professional p*rn is fake? So is that moaning! The women in p*rn moan like that to please men, because most p*rn is for getting men off, those girls dont mean those moan. I dont moan, but i realized i naturally whimper. So when start having sex just focus on what you're feeling! And wait till ur over 18, you dont realize how much of a child u are in ur teens until you get to univeristy, so you girls make sure you do enough growing up you go ahead with losing ur virginity. Lose it to someone you love, might not regret it doing it with a stranger but its one of my biggest regrets in life, and its better if u use lube the during ur first time, be as aroused and wet as possible!

[Anonymous]

There is no particular way to moan. Just like voices, we all sound different

[Mesonfielde]

She just has to make whatever noise or sound or whatever she naturally makes, no need to fake anything because hell even I can fake female p*rnstar moans but it's not that attractive.