1. Role playing = he "hypnotizes" you so that you strip and perform a BJ exactly the way he says
2. Role playing = he agrees to be under your command
you "force" him to strip you, then himself
position him facing bathroom mirror, hands on counter, feet spread
NOT permitted to move
while you rub your breasts on his back
from behind him one lubed hand on his balls
from his front one lubed hand on his rod
then massage slowly but never let him finish until he begs for it
Kinks vary dramatically. Tell us more about what his favorite kinks are. Is he a sadist? Into bondage? What're his thing?
He's into choking and tying me up... he wants to drop candle wax on me... but I'm not sure..
Then go online and buy him some real BDSM candles. Candles we buy in stores have too high a melting temperature and if one isn't extremely careful, the burns can leave permanent scars. BDSM candles melt at a lower temp and so are safe. You could also dare him to drip on you in some extremely sensitive places. I love to make her lay on her stomach, reach back and spread those sweet cheeks so I can drip the hot wax directly on that tight little opening and not let her move until I use a small whip to knock the hardened wax off her now hugely tender anus.
www.amazon.com/.../2 is what you're looking for and the price is very reasonable.
Next time you blow him give him a prostate massage, it makes guys cum so much more, sometimes my husband has multiple orgasms when I do it to him
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What constitutes "extremely kinky"? I highly doubt you even have context for what that is if you're a virgin.
Have you considered asking him what he's into or wants to try? Communicate about it? We can go on and on telling you about our own fantasies and interests, but what matters is what you and him find arousing. We can't decide that for you.
Oil him up, strap him to a wheelchair and ride him down the stairs! I'm pretty sure he'll never forget.
ask for anal. If you really want to surprise him, secretly get an enema first, and after he cums in your butt, turn around and suck it.
Tie him up!!!
Make him wear a cock cage and get him aroused but don't give him the key. Make him eat you out
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