I just found out my sister has been showing herself to my BF. Girls how would you handle this? There are some other issues too.

On the second floor of our house we have a game room with a couple big screen TVs and a pool table There's a couple of couches, and a guest bathroom. So this morning my guy tells me my 15 YO younger sister has been leaving the door open enough to let him see her getting out of the shower and stuff. I am soo pissed because this has been going on for like a year now and this is the first time I am hearing it. Confession! I did the same stuff when guys were over, exactly, but never to my older sister's BF. Never! I am mad at my BF more than at my sister I think. He's been watching her for a long time and not telling me. I also think I am damn jealous of my sister that is 4 years younger, and has a better body than I do. She has boobs at 15 that I would die for at 19. I am soo conflicted about this. Damn! Damn! What would you do. (Please girls only)
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  • Honestly, if I were in your boyfriend's situation, I wouldn't have told you either. Not because I'm all ogling your sister, but because I know it's going to create a bunch of friction that's really kind of unnecessary. I'm know that I'm not lusting after/going to leave you for your sister, and that she's just looking for a reaction/attention.

    I'd figure, especially at first, that if I just ignore it, your sister will eventually just stop doing things like that, and everything will go back to normal and everyone will be happy. Now, if it eventually ~didn't~ stop, and kept happening over a long period of time, then I'd have to do something about it. Unfortunately, none of the options are particulary great ones, and your boyfriend chose the one that involves telling you about it.

  • talk to your sister. she's not going to take it well obviously because she is a 15 year old moron, no offense, but 95% of all teenagers are idiots. I'm still young and dumb so you can take my word for it lol. but im actually more surprised by your BFs actions, he's been peeping on your sister for an entire year before fessing up. that's creepy shit. makes me wonder what else he does. you need to talk to your sister before your BF. and then re-evaluate your BF.

    • Cmon Bert. She's just 15 but could pass for 18. I've calmed down a bit by now. Rather than being mad at my guy, I wonder if he was afraib to tell me.

    • @crazyincalifornia I didn't mean to offend you, I just remember when I was 15, and I could've still passed off as 20. but anyways im glad you're much calmer now:) its better to think on a leveled-head instead of making impulse decisions with a clouded judgment. she might have been afraid to tell you but she is the one that was letting it happen, so the guilt is in fact on her.

    • Yea!

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  • they were both wrong in doing it... n I don't know how old u are...19 is what im getting... n she's 15... um thts COMPLETELY WRONG... if i were you i'd leave the whore and sit with your sister and talk about it... n no sugar coatin nutin... have tht raw conversation...

  • Ok so first they are both wrong. I would really have a sit down with my sister and ask her why would she disrespect me and my relationship like that. And i would break up with my boyfriend for being a perv and watching a 15 yr. little girl. I find that weird and nasty.

  • Tell your parents about your sisters dirty habit so they can deal with her.
    Kick your asshat boyfriend to the curb for being a peeping tom to a 15 year old and hiding shit from you.

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  • I would beat the shit out of her. like seriously leave her bloody and scratch her face up and pull her hair out of her head

  • Oh boy. Et tu crazyincalifornia?

  • spank her... she is still a kid.

  • 'I did the same stuff when guys were over, exactly, but never to my older sister's BF. Never!'

    uh.. i don't understand.. so you did it to your younger sisters boyfriends?