My girlfriend wants me to tie her up, but I'm not sure of exactly what to do?

[ShutupandJive]

We have tried in the past, but I have never been too sure about what to do. I've never been able to find a means of tying her up that is either strong enough or doesn't hurt her too much. What works best to tie her up? Furthermore, what am I specifically meant to do. In the past I have mainly teased her by kissing her all over her neck and body, but pulling away as she starts to enjoy it. Or breathing on her vagina then pressing my lips to them, before pulling away. It usually drives her crazy, but I want to know what else I can do to please her, or what it is she wants while being tied up?

[AustinMan]

Oh my!!! What an opportunity for you. A very, very important thing to remember is that a submissive, aka your gf, gets turned on by you getting turned on so do what you want and she'll be happy. There's tons to cover so let's get started:
1) She's submitting to you as her Master so get masterful and forceful. It'll probably be even more fun if she resists so you have to manhandle her into her bonds.
2) Buy some fabric cuffs online. They're cheap and readily available. When you bind her, keep a finger under the cuff. That way you know she'll still have circulation to her hands and feet while she's bound.
3) Buy some thicker, like 1/2", soft rope at Lowe's or The Home Depot. You'll need 40 feet or so. Cut it into four lengths. Loop it through the D-rings on the cuffs.
4) Lay her down ouf of scene to see where her hands and feet are on the bed when she's fully extended.
5) Use a clove hitch to attach the rope to the bedposts.
6) Use a taut line hitch tie the cuffs to the rope. This knot, as the name implies, allows you to effectively shorten the rope from the cuff to the post and thereby stretch her until she is comfortable but can't move.

You have her secured. You can secure her face up if you want to play with her tits and face, or face down if her ass and back are more to your liking. Remember, you're in charge here. One readily available and extremely effective toy is the simple ice cube. Running it slowly, repeat slowly, over her skin is very erotic, particularly if the area is exquisitely sensitive: nipples, clit, pee hole, vagina, inside of her thighs, butt crack and let's not forget, her cute little anus. If you can channel you Christian Gray, play with anus and then slip it up her ass. She'll go nuts because she'll be freezing but there's no danger. A flogger is another good implement, particularly a softer one like suede.

Read all the 50 Shades of Grey novels for ideas. Look up BDSM online for tons more. A blindfold multiplies her pleasure.

[ShutupandJive]

Okay, props for effort haha. Thanks for the help

[AustinMan]

If you already knew all that, my bad. I'm a compulsive helper and bondage has some risks I wanted to help you mitigate. Major rules--never leave your sub alone while bound and have a safe word she can use to stop the action. I recommend against "Oh God!!" ;) Red Light works well. That way you can go to town on her and unless you hear her safe word, keep going. You might also have one that says take it a little easy for a minute while she adjusts. I like mercy for that one.

[ShutupandJive]

Nah I didn't have that much of an idea. I'll have to try some of that haha. I like the idea of the ice cube, I might have to try slipping that in ;) haha

[AustinMan]

Whichever hole it goes in, the effect is really amazing. You might put a towel under her waist so the sheets don't get soaked. Just go all cave man on her and own her. It's what she wants.

[islands7]

Scarves come in all materials
revisit the movie Basic Instinct (Michael Douglas)

[hotshotgirl]

get a scarf and tie to the bed frame