(Guys) If you're a "player" & have a girl just to have sex with her, would you introduce her to family members?

Question

Hey guys, I've been having a complicated situation with a guy. We're not dating or anything, however he was my first and he knows that very well. I guess we're friends with benefits, we have never really talked about what we are. Basically we don't have a title, we're just there. At first I thought I was strong enough to just be sex buddies, despite the feelings I already had for him before he took my V. He doesn't know how I feel about him, I act indifferent with him sometimes. It's an on & off situation all the time! When I think we're only sex buddies, he does things that throw me off guard & makes me reconsider my original thought. One day while having sex, he out of nowhere kissed my forehead which is odd if we're sex buddies. Also, he took me to his brother's & sister in law's house & we all chilled at their house together.. He does cute stuff but all of a sudden he'll act weird towards me. Like he'll be distant with me & quiet after having sex, which makes me think we're just sex buddies but then he'll do cute stuff. Point is, he is confusing me so much! I don't know what to do. Guys, what do you think of this situation? HELP!! What do I do?

Bandit74 · Accepted Answer

I'm not a player but if i was just using a girl for sex, I definitely wouldn't want to introduce her to my family. If anything I'd want to avoid that at all costs. But that's just me, honestly I can't say how he feels about you just off of the given information.

Is it possible he has feelings for you? Yes but it's also possible that you're seeing what you want to see. If you really want to know, just be direct and ask him. I think he would know how he feels about you more so than anyone else on this site. If you are mature enough to fuck him, you should be mature enough to have a conversation about the nature of your relationship.

j232323 · Accepted Answer

Honestly he might of been heartbroken before or something he's prolly just having trust issues and is kinda trying to see if uk where he's at feeling wise but if so dont be direct bcs most likely he would probably brush it off like nothing just ask him how he's feeling or if you seem him acting Wired just ask him if he's got a lot in his mind but make sure he talks to you about it first dont try to make him talk about it let him talk how he feels it helps to break the ice and it ill be Easy to talk about it

bijinbijinbijin · Accepted Answer

You need to learn how to properly communicate. How can you go through life just letting things happen and not speaking up for yourself? If you are confused, have questions, feelings, then you need to tell someone so that the person can understand you. Not keep it to yourself and just let whoever control everything. You need to take control and ask that boy how he feels about you so that you will know. Its that simple. When you know how to communicate then you won't end up in confusing situations.

xobrowneyedbeauty · Accepted Answer

you should talk about it. the only way to really know is to ask what you guys are. we can tell you what it might seem like in our opinions but no one has a better answer for you than he would.