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Is it gay for a guy to get head from a straight guy?

My friend gets head everyday from another friend of ours that is gay. He says he isn't gay and has had a girlfriend and sleeps with girls and stuff. We have even had sex a few times before. I guess he just looks at it as him just getting head but I know a lot of people will look at it as gay. He says he does is because gay guys give better head because they know what they are doing. so...two questions...Do gay guys usually give better head then girls and Is it gay to get head from a gay guy?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • he sounds like he's trying to figure out if he's bi or gay.if he doesn't seem "interested" in having a RELATIONSHIP with a guy then he's not COMPLETELY gay.he might be curious about it (which he'd NEVER say aloud) but unless you see yourself getting into a relationship with someone of the same sex, there's no way you can say you're gay.however, he's getting head from guys and a straight guy DOES NOT do that.a straight guy would normally be repulsed at the thought of that.atleast, all the straight guys I know.for instance, just because a girl goes down on another girl in a 3some, on a dare, when they're drunk, when they're on drugs, etc. doesn't mean she's gay ya know?it just means she has a less rigid sex drive and is more open minded.granted she COULD be bi or gay but it doesn't mean that she is.we always assume guys are gay though because guys, when it comes to sexuality, are very black and white.no gray area.to most guys you either are or aren't.in any threesome the girls will play around, but the guys won't even look at each other.this guy's getting head from one though so it sounds like, when he's having sex with another girl, he's thinking of someone else:\ slight addiction to anal would be a huge hint.enjoying it's one thing but ALWAYS wanting it is slightly different.

  • It does not seem gay to me. I have known guys who have done these things I would probably consider the guy Bi or curious but if he has a girlfriend and still like being with her then I don't think it means he is gay.

    Since he is not doing it in return he doesn't seem gay. I have heard that guys give better head but since I am a girl I don't know if it is entirly true.

  • Thats a bit gay. Most guys wouldn't want a guy to do it

Most Helpful Guys

  • He's definitely into guys even if it's is a little bit buy he is

    And it's pretty much like guys know what guys like so it wood make sense that a guy getting head from a guy wood feel better than from a girl but I don't know never experienced a gay Bj so who knows it's just my thought

  • Probably not gay, certainly not straight.

    I'm betting bi, but closeted. He should work on that.

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  • Yes it is gay. He is having sexual intercourse with another man.

  • He is either bi-sexual or gay. No straight guy will want to get sucked off by another guy. Either he likes both sexes or he hasn't come out yet.

  • Um...Yes? That's like asking if it's heterosexual to get head from someone of the opposite sex. At the very least he's bisexual.

  • He may not see it as gay but Yes he is. Gay guys prob give better head but still. If a chick wanted to go down on you and you was not gay would you let her?

    • True, but think about how constantly horny men are.

    • Still people should have boundaries, and for a straight guy that is one

  • I just think that's odd actually!

  • If he is getting head from a guy then he is gay period.

  • Uh, I'm going to have to go with yes, it's pretty gay.

  • Doesn't seem gay to me if he just wants to get off. But we'll never really know what he's thinking.

  • Sounds pretty gay to me.

  • On the first part I don't know because I am entirely exclusive with girls. Pretty sure my cock would hide if I thought it was a good idea to compare girls with gay guys.

    In any case girls have much better lips and their tongues are pointier.

    On the second part it is very gay. Here is a gay guy and you have pulled it out and told him to suck it. That makes you gay.

    I have mentioned before I live in area where there is street prostitution. Some of the street whores are man hoes. For what I have heard 'nominally straight' guys pay to suck cock. A while back a man hoe was creating a ruckus yelling 'I let you suck my cock and you won't pay' over and over. I daresay he felt violated.

    If you pay to suck cock then you are gay on steroids.

    I know a guy who got drunk at a bar and sucked a guy's cock. He blamed his girlfriend for it. None of us could figure out how it was her fault.

    So the levels of gayness, in increasing order, are :-

    1. You get a gay to suck your cock

    2. You pay to suck cock

    3. You suck cock and blame your girlfriend

  • It's a gay sexual activity, but it doesn't necessarily mean his sexual identity is gay or bisexual

  • Without a doubt, gay.

    Please tell him to surrender his man card at the front desk.

  • he is extremely gay

  • If he don’t give one back he could be straight. A mouth is a mouth they say. And yes guys do it better.

  • My best friend used to get head from a gay dude back in high school. He swore on his life that he was NOT gay. Well.. He came out of the closet about a year ago.

  • If just getting head and not giving, I would not think that is gay. I also think, in general, that guys give better head than women. But also, generally speaking, women give better oral to women than men do. Each person understands the parts they have, so they know what to do to the same parts on someone else.

  • Mmm gay

  • My soldier doesn't rise at the thought of another man...only women. Gonna have to go with gay here. The guy is getting off from another guy...if this isn't the definition of gay, what on earth would be. Tell him quite denying it to make himself feel better. He has just come out of the closet and slammed the door shut behind him.

  • Its not gay I have sucked off many married guys that are not gay. Like this one guy I met online he comes over after he gets out of work like 3 to 5 times a week and I suck him off and we may have a beer or something and he leaves. They never return the favor so yea they are just guys getting blow jobs. and I like it cause I like come so its a win win. I say as a gay man...he is not gay...just horny ; )

    • You have to be gay!!!

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