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Boyfriend wants me to swallow my cum?

Okay recently during sex my boyfriend has fingered me then took his finger out and told me lick it. I declined. Is this a major turn on? I would... Show More

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  • It''s sure not a major turn on for me and I doubt for most normal guys. I would think that any guy that'd want his girl to eat her stuff needs kinky things to turn on too because the usual won't do for him. But if he just asked you for the heck of it and then dropped the idea then what I said doesn't apply. On the other hand, if he asked you like he really wants you too then that's just weird. It's about like expecting most guys to eat their own come because a normal guy won't! So no, it's not stimulating to me and I'm sure not for most guys either. But, of course, I'd do it was hers.

What Guys Said 4

  • Swallowing his would be the biggest turn on (for him). He probably saw it on something and thought it was hot. Plus it mimics the thought of you going down on him. There is also the factor of you being "submissive" and doing what he asks. Don't do anything you are uncomfortable with. Just tell him you want to take your time and work up to it. Play innocent and curious and he will probably respond well. If you show scared and disgusted he will probably be turned off. Again, just make sure you are comfortable with whatever you decide to do.

  • Not in general, its purely preference. HIS however is usually a turn on for all guys, but it can be quite a nasty thing for a girl, so I hear.

  • To each their own. I personally would find that to be a turn on, but that doesn't mean most guys would. It's what you're comfortable with that matters.

What Girls Said 5

  • ya guys like this it turns them on a lot and they like when you do this but if you don't want to then just tell him no way because you shouldn't do anything you don't wanna do.

  • Well, it depends on you, what you can consider exciting and pleasurable. Sometimes it's better to follow your intuition. Of course, you can ask to persons whom you can consider trustful, but you have the final decision.Even if you "eat" your come or his is not important, I think that some of the things that can arouse him may be the face, expressions and sounds you make during the sex. Licking your own or his could be so he can see how much excited you are when you are accepting him.I think however, that you cannot think about it when you are having and enjoying sex.

  • i do this all the time (and thoroughly enjoy it too!) and every guy I've ever been with LOVES it.

  • I think he's stupid to have asked you to swallow your own juices. Most people don't like eating their own sex stuff, but my boyfriend loves mine when he gives me oral.

  • Never do anything you are not comfortable with.Is it stimulating?To you?No.To him?Well,it'll be a turn on.

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