What. The. Fuck, indeed. I would off jumped your bones through the damn phone! To sum it up without too many words. You guys are just not sexually compatible. His sexual activity level is low and your's is high. I think you need to find someone who is going to satisfy your cravings. I mean I used to ditch class just to get to my exgf's place to have sex. I'm not going to turn down sex, who does that? Now, for those texts, I would tell you to save them because I'm on my way over to where ever the hell you are. Get READY!
0 0 0 0but me and him have amazing sex and he's horny when he's with me, but he doesn't like to have sleepovers and he only likes to see me maybe twice a week cuz it interfers with school... but i litterally am offering to show up at his house just for sex. i dont need to hang out and talk. just sex and bed. and he's saying no.
@Asker he ONLY likes to see you twice a week? Uhhh how new is this r/s, because it sounds like he's acting like he's got you on a hook and that you'd come at his beck and call. Now that he has you he only needs you when HE sees fit. He's horny only when HE needs some. That's not a relationship. It interferes w/ school that's a complete fucking bullshit ass excuse. This dude's a lame. Find someone else, your just getting frustrated all that pent up sexual energy isn't good. Me and some of my exgfs would have sex like at least 4/5x a week if we had extra time we'd be fucking twice a day, also there's ALWAYS time for quickies!
when we are together we'll have sex like three times a day. but other then that he has to study and go to bed early and hang out with his buddies. Its extremely frustrating. I dont want to find someone else, he's really really good to me otherwise. I need to understand why he's like this and if there's something i could do to change it. and ya you're right, i would go to him the second he called for any reason. and i have no idea how to change that cuz i always wanna be with him
Some people, men and women, naturally have low sex drives, I am lucky I was born with an extremely high sex drive, women are still hard for me to keep up with though so I end up eating a lot of pussy haha. I love it though, I can lick for days straight haha
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Girl Im having the exact same problem as you are! I feel your pain! Like "Wanttoknow1" asked, could he be addicted to p*rn? My boyfriend just confessed that he thinks he is and im leaning towards that might be the problem for our issues...
0 0 0 0i wouldn't even know if thats the issue with my boyfriend... we dont really discuss how much he watches p*rn, but once in awhile me and him watch it together. have you tried watching it with him? it can actually be pretty sexy. he might be a little nervous about that at first but you should try it.
I've tried to watch it together and he freaks out. I've sent him pictured of myself and he acts like he could care less...
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1 8If he has never been to addicted or currently addicted to p*rn or drugs or if he isn't in a labor intense job or seeing someone else or is not in good health I'm not sure what the issue is.
0 0 0 0could he just be super stressed from school? he's in a difficult program and he studies a lot and has exams coming up... but i dont see why he wouldn't have sex! it would help him sleep way better.
Yes, the most important sex organ is the brain and when stress gets in the way it can distract someone. Speaking from experience stress is very exhausting. Studying believe it or not can be labor intense if you literally spend hours at a time aside from other things. Sex may help him sleep but if he is already drained mentally and physically it would tough even if he is aroused and wanted to be intimate with you..
so if this is the case i'm just out of luck until he's done exams... -.-
A lot of guys think they are when they aren't really...
0 0 0 0Do you mean that he will actually refuse sex for a whole day? He's got no sex drive. Find yourself a healthy man.
0 0 0 0when i'm not with him. if i send him a message asking him to hang out because i'm horny. he'll say no. i told him i would drive to his house, just to have sex and then go to sleep but he said no.
He's seeing someone else, he's a closet queen, he's just not attracted to you though at his age he should get hard for any hole. Take your pick
0 0 0 0lol totally none of those! he's definitely not gay, he wouldn't cheat on me, he's def attracted to me,. its just only when he wants it. if i was directly in front of him he would have sex no problem,. but to ask him to hang out when i'm horny, its nearly impossible.
That's still unnatural. Something's up with this guy
i hate having to beg him, its stupid and pretty unfair. cuz when he's horny, even if i dont want sex, i make sure he gets the pleasure he needs.
Women want sex more than men. They just know how to hide it better.
0 0 0 0He seems selfish lmao. stop telling him you're horny in these situations and just be like I miss you.. I want you.. sort of say? I'm sure you can turn him on no problem.
0 0 0 0Maybe he has a low libido
0 0 0 0give him viagra LMFAO
0 0 0 0lmfaooo!! well he gets horny when i'm standing right in front of him. but he doesn't like to hang out more than twice a week, so if i'm horny and i want to see him so i start sending him dirty stuff. he'll say "not tonight".
Maybe he's an introvert because I am and I can only handle hanging out with a person once and then I can't till like months later but just be patient!
ya but is that the same way for you with a significant other? i dont mind that he only wants to hang out twice a week, i know he likes his alone time.. but i'm literally offering to show up just for sex... and this happens all the time
I dont know wot his problem is. he a fool. gurl, i'd lace u every day!
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