Is it wrong for guy to stick penis tip in without asking when we are not both naked?

[Anonymous]

I was wearing skirt pulled up and panties. We were in his dark car. He was on top of me. He took his penis out and I didn't realize at first. Then I felt something a little bit. He put the tip of his penis in. He didn't put it in all the way just the tip it wasn't like sex. I didn't realize he did it until he did. I think that's wrong. If the guy has it out and you are in light and touching it... but the fact that he put the tip in without me even knowing his dick was out, in the dark, is wrong. Does anyone agree?

[HulioE]

Sounds more sexually active (see not a bitch) than your current boyfriend, than again, that's me being judgmental.

Really, technically I suppose, yes, it was sexual assault, as you didn't express consent tho you can also give consent (depending on your state laws) by participating in what is deemed as consensual foreplay which it sounds like you were/did, but I could be wrong, I wasn't there. The difference as to whether this was rape or SA is penetration by force (so you would've had to actively told him to stop and he continued anyway).

Was it a dick move, yes but I'm sure you're not too cut up about it since you're putting it on GaG rather than a therapist.

[dartmaul15]

yup it was. It's not as much about without you knowing it, but it's about frigin manners. Also it is about not doing anything sexual without concent.

Seems like you two needs an honest talk together to set the "rules" straight. Make sure both of you know what's ok and not.

[bombamboum]

In the heat of the moment it's something natural when you think about it. The only thing is that it's disrespectful because he didn't think about protection even something like that need protection. Believe it or not, but it is sex

[dartmaul15]

yup, i got to agree with you there. Also it's really disrepectfull to not ask her if it's ok. Even in the heat of moment it should be natural to ask for concent (unless you're allready all over eachother obviously XD)

[MaskedSanity]

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[AustinMan]

Given that there was a pattern and you said nothing in the question about protesting at the time, I don't think it's rape. It is however, very poor form and deplorable behavior.

[kumikochan48]

That's rape.

[molan]

I agree, especially since you could get a STD... it's borderline rape and certainly sexual molestation or assault.

To put you in harms way of STD without you knowledge and consent is not acceptable.

[kangy]

punch his dick

[front2back]

Isn't that like... you know... rape?

[eastcoastbangas]

Good thing he is your ex. That's disgusting behavior

[larry69]

It's called rape

[NGJon]

What a master of romance

[Anonymous]

Did You Ever Attempt To Stop Him Or Tell Him No?

[Anonymous]

Rape! Sounds like what happened w/ my ex.

[Anonymous]

Short answer, I agree, but hormones and an intimate setting are a dangerous mix. A lot can happen and asking permission can get lost in the moment. Did he poke you through your panties or pull them aside?

[Asker]

Pull them aside or off

[Anonymous]

Molestation.

[Opinion Owner]

Update: Okay.