Skinny guys, would you date or do a fat girl?

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry if this is callous. Please don't read on any further if you don't wish to be upset. Please. But, I'm always propositioned by fat girls, and I'm a small guy. Even a fairly attractive bigger girl was really into me awhile back, and I just didn't feel anything. There was one chick I made out with, and she was fairly skinny, except she had this fatty skin on her stomach that I didn't know about and almost made me gag. Most recently, there was this gigantic woman who was all over me at my friends house. It was his ex, and she was looking at me like I was a steak and asking me all kinds of personal questions and if I would date fat girls, getting much too close to me. It was just really uncomfortable. I fully support everyone's right to eat what they want and be whatever they want--along with their right not to be verbally hurt or attacked for being something--I'm just saying this from a HUUUUGE personal turn off. I just can't do fat chicks. Something from my childhood, I think, with my parents talking about how fat is disgusting. It's just how I feel, and I can't control that, so please don't attack me for it. Thank you. And, I'm not talking like 5'6, 120, 130 pounds. I'm talking like 180, 220. Though, for me, being 130 pounds, anything close to that or higher is seriously a turn off. It's not that I'm not strong, I lift up to 200 pound packages on a daily basis for my job, so I'm very much in tip top shape. I can hardly do it, but I can; regularly, I pick up 150-160 pound packages and lift them up onto a 5 foot high grating. Of course, 120-130 I can do pretty comfortably. I'm strong for my size. I bench press 185 and can dead lift 350 pounds. Don't know why I needed to say that, but there it is. Just to say that I'm not intimidated by her being bigger than me. It really depends on how the weight is distributed, but I'm talking like fat everywhere.

[Little-Hippie]

I honestly used to have the same issue, bro.

I eventually had to give in and just gain 50 lbs of muscle just to compete.
I was like 125-130, before I started.
I had always been strong, but never big.
But muscle size catches the attention of hot girls. The strength is almost irrelevant.

You have to remember, at least here in America, the average girl IS fat.
So the competition over thinner women just got that much more intense because if you want a thin girl, you're basically trying to get something that isn't that statistically common.
I'm not saying you have to look like a Greek statue, but it certainly helps.

And you'll always be propositioned by women you don't find attractive. It comes with the territory.
You just want to make sure you have plenty other options so it doesn't bother you so much.

[Asker]

True, true. Sadly true. But, I just couldn't do it, man. >_> It's just my turn off. Getting bigger would probably help stop mother fuckers talking shit, too. As small as I look, no one takes me seriously or think it's dangerous to fuck with me. Hmmmm. I should start working out a bit. 155 would probably be perfect, more normal. But it's so expensive and time consuming with school and work. @_@ I already have a hard labor job for a year, and I've hardly built any muscle at all. Aha! Or! I could move to a country with more skinny girls. :D Like Denmark or Sweden or Japan. Even the U. K. would probably be good. There we go. ^^ Thanks for your answer, mate. ^_^

[Little-Hippie]

Haha, yeah it's hard with a busy schedule and no money. Muscle is expensive to maintain. The best thing usually, I buy a few food items that I can quickly prepare and eat in addition to my normal diet, just to get the extra calories. Something cheap and easy. Right now, it's microwaveable chicken patties, buns, pepperjack cheese and some sauce. And I'll eat like 4 of those a day in addition to my regular meals. Then take creatine and protein. Gym 4 or so times a week and you've got it. I'm a naturally super skinny guy, so it's hard. You've got to eat a retarded amount. But I know you're not skipping countries, so go for it and stick to it, breh.

[Asker]

Processed foods? That's not good. They have a lot of sodium/bad fats. I might, eventually. Once I can make enough money or find a job overseas. In Japan, you can become an English teacher without knowing Japanese or having any experience or higher education.

[Little-Hippie]

I'm not going to say they're not bad for you. But eating healthy and organic all the time gets very expensive with how much you have to eat. It's also very time consuming. And I went to high school in Japan. weight preferences are probably different. But you also have the language and cultural barriers in terms of dating. You'd probably break about as even as the states.

[Asker]

True. True. I don't eat organically, but I still try to stay away from processed foods. A lot of those aren't cheap, either. I'm rethinking going to Japan: it's really just a musing. But, one can learn other cultures and languages. I have a novice grasp of Japanese, already. Well, I know a few words and phrases and such. And a tiny bit of the culture. For instance, not to eat unpeeled fruit--even grapes. :O

[notcreativethough]

No one chooses what they're attracted to and I'm not attracted to overweight girls. I'm attracted to healthy bodies. If there isn't physical attraction, it isn't happening. I don't feel bad about this at all and I don't really give a fuck what others think of my standard so downvote away social justice warriors.

The truth is, every normal Human mind is subconsciously 'shallow'. Every normal Human mind wants the most genetically healthy and compatible mate, it's Human nature, natural selection.

[Asker]

That's exactly how I feel. People are just disgusted because they want to be 'moral', which usually ends up being immoral in a lot of cases, in the long run. People just try to be politically correct, and try to avoid the deeper thoughts they have. I appreciate your answer. ^^

[JulieXO]

There is nothing wrong having a personal preference, and I totally get why you don't wanna date fat chicks. 5'6 and 130 is really not fat though, it's more on the slim side in my opinion. I'm 5'4 130 and I don't consider myself fat XD

[Asker]

I said I *wasn't* talking about 5'6 130. Weight doesn't really matter, it's how it's distributed. I was just trying to eyeball what I'm imagining, and failing terribly, I think. I should have provided an example.

[red324]

I agree. Those are the girls I shoot for:) Although I'm only 5'4 and 120 pounds myself and I find a lot of girls don't seem to like that in a guy. Such is life.

[__jessicats]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA this is the most insensitive question I've ever seen.

[Asker]

I'm sure you have absolutely no insensitive thoughts. It would have been a lot more insensitive if I wouldn't have warned people not to read it. Not my fault if people are too fucking stupid and politically correct to not take that advice.

[Red_Dragon]

Depends on how fat. Are we talking obese? If so then nah.

Though I'm not really skinny. I'm a good weight for my height. I am a small guy though.

[Asker]

Let's say a chick bigger than you. Or a chick with a rounded face.

Something like this: images.search.yahoo.com/.../view;_ylt=AwrB8pwIAnFUqkoAvfOJzbkF;_ylu=X3oDMTIzZzZ1YW9kBHNlYwNzcgRzbGsDaW1nBG9pZANkOTNkMTExOWI5OTFmNGZkYWZmN2ZkMjkyNTU5NmM0ZARncG9zAzExBGl0A2Jpbmc-

Or this: images.search.yahoo.com/.../view;_ylt=AwrB8pwIAnFUqkoAu_OJzbkF;_ylu=X3oDMTIyZHU0cnNqBHNlYwNzcgRzbGsDaW1nBG9pZAM5YzRmM2Q0ODNjZDBlMGQ5MGYwN2Q3MzI2ZDIxNTExNgRncG9zAzkEaXQDYmluZw--

Wow those are large links. >_>

[Red_Dragon]

The 2nd one doesn't look really attractive to me, but her size doesn't look that bad. The first girl I looked up other pics of her and she's not fat really. She's just big and tall. She's not really attractive either, but I do like big girls. Again there's a difference between a big girl like her and a fat girl.

[Asker]

Yeah, I guess; but, honestly, for me, I could do either weight. :\

[Asker]

Couldn't*

[Red_Dragon]

Oh okay.

[Mesonfielde]

I am stuck between B) and C), but there is a definite upper threshold, so I voted C).

[atomique]

Sure why not as long as she is happy and healthy. Although to be honest if you are shorter than me 235lbs~240lbs is the upper limit.

[Anonymous]

Fat women are beautiful. And I mean like really fat, like Venus of Willendorf (look it up) fat.

[Anonymous]

180+ ? I really dont know if I could.

[Anonymous]

"fatty skin on her stomach" lmfao! I couldn't be bothered ti read past that. most women WHO ACTUALLY EAT have a little extra body fat in the stomachs...

goodness, I can't even be bothered to go any further.

[Asker]

Not a huge flap hanging down past her waist. Like I said, you shouldn't have kept reading if you were going to get upset.

[Asker]

Err, it was to her thighs. I'm sure you don't have any turn offs like that at all. You're so inclusive with every guy you meet, and aren't disgusted by any of them.

[Asker]

I'm not talking a stomach paunch. I'm cool with that. And girls do have more fat than guys, in preparation for baby making, but there's a difference between super stores and a little flab.