Do guys mind if you wear your bra on during sex?

When I have sex with my boyfriend I don't take off my bra. i can tell it bothers him, when we're having sex he tries to remove my bra but I push his hands off. I just don't like my breasts it's not like they're deformed or something like that It's just that I was raised to cover and be a Ashamed of having curves so I just grew hating them. How do I fill up the courage to remove my bra during sex?
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  • It depends on the guy. Some men would find it the end of the world, I'm sure others wouldn't be as bothered. But I think ALL men want to see them at some point - some guys get off on the "leaving some to the imagination".

    It's just one of those things that you have to suck up and do if you don't like doing it. I don't like being nude, but if I wasn't nude I'm sure it would make things a lot harder. You just need to trust the fact your boyfriend isn't going to go "haha, you're ugly!" and try to enjoy the moment. Maybe try practicing in the mirror to find out which positions your breasts look best, or try being nude alone and see which positions make you less conscious. Eg, if I lie on my back, my boobs fill my armpits and it's not a sexy look. If I'm at more of an angle, hands and knees with my back at like a 45 degree angle, they look more like tits and less like enormous pancakes.

    • "... but if I wasn't nude I'm sure it would make things a lot harder." No, being nude makes things harder... Good advice though.

    • Haha, thanks @Bysshe

  • It's interesting how you said that you were raised to "cover and be ashamed of curves". So I hope that your profile pic isn't you because it's really contradictoring... I just don't understand how can you not feel comfortable with showing your boyfriend the person that you trust, making love to, saw just about every section of your body except for your breast, well areola, but you claim you were raised to cover yourself and yet you have a pictire posted of yourself with only a bra for the world to see.

    That just doesn't make any since to me.

  • u were raised to be ashamed of having curves? may i ask what on earth happened there?

    curves r beautiful. i try to embrace mine everyday, and work hard at enhancing them. your boyfriend obviously believes you're beautiful. allow him to take that insecure part of yourself and let him make u feel good about yourself. you will feel so much better.
    on the other hand, if u feel more time to do this, I'm sure he'll understand.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Either bf is a queer to put up with that crap or you are fooling around with us.

    I mean, C'mon... you let a guy spread you open, pull your clit hood back, lap you out, screw you in the butt and you won't show tits?

    Goddammit those the tits must come out at once if you were with me darling. I would say forget it with no tits. I'd walk out the door. You would have to have them suckled for 10 min during foreplay and have them fondled almost continually at the movies. So 'no tits out' during sex is unimaginable for me.

    PS... If that is your true pix I'd like to amend my answer... from 'suckled for 10 min' during foreplay to 'suckled for 15 to 20 min'... your quite a beauty!

  • I kid you not, for me, you not being willing to remove it would be extremely frustrating and annoying. We would possibly quarrel about it from time to time. How to have the courage? Just don't be bothered by the fact that your bra is not on you.

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  • uniladmag.com/.../

    You are not Svetlana Bilyalova.

    • Uh, did she say the profile picture was her? I don't think so, so back off.

    • @ShaeNielson someone's butthurt.

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  • I had the same problem, I still do really. But I learnt to get comfortable with my boyfriend and I just brought it up in conversation and he understood, and when I was ready (I was drunk so I was a lot more comfortable) I took it of and he complimented my boobs and it made me feel a lot better. How you feel about yourself and your body is way more important than your boyfriend wanting to see your boobs!

  • ehm... ashamed? you? what a joke. Isn´t that you in the profile picture?
    It seems you don´t mind wearing nothing but your bra. what a hypocrit.

    • That's not her, that's Svetlana Bilyalova.

  • Yeah they do mind, a lot. And the profile picture isn't even you anyways.

  • Once in a while I don't mind. Clothed sex is a thing, too.

  • If i wouldn't remove it probably there would be no sex. I love my boobs to be free when i have sex and i am sure guys get really frustrated aa they love boobs. U can try sex with lights off until getting used to it if u dont like your boobs free.

  • just put it out it's better without a bra.

    and more comfortable i guess LOL

  • You don't like him looking at you but you'll let him put his dick in you? If you don't feel comfortable with him then you shouldn't be having sex with him

    • It's herself she doesn't feel comfortable with. There is a difference.

    • Exactly. If you can't be comfortable with yourself then how do you expect to be comfortable with other people and how do you expect others to be comfortable with you.

  • In the beginning of course i don't mind , i wan't you to feel comfortable around me and give you the time to adjust to the idea of exposing them to me. Eventually i want the bra thing to stop. Because as your boyfriend i would still be really into your breats and i would love to see and play with this, its a huge turn on. To me there would be no way they would look wrong unless you did something to hide how they actually look like and there would be nothing to be ashamed off or hate even if you have always been told to do so.

  • uhm, is that you in the photo? you can't be that ashamed if you have no problem being half naked on a site full of random people.

    maybe try dimming the lights?

  • Yeah it's not as much of a turn on if you keep your bra on. As for building up the courage, you just have to do it. Then you'll realise it's no big deal.

  • I'd be okay if she kept her bra on, at least for the first few times. It's okay to feel uncomfortable about taking it off, but consistently doing so communicates a lack of trust.

  • Svetlana Bilyalova...

    • I am gonna say to you, as to @ArticRussianFoxes above (who blocked me, so I can't respond because she couldn't deal with not being ass licked) That the Asker never claimed to be That Svetlana Bilyalova :)

    • @ArcticRussianFoxes - thats more like it

  • How would you like to have a treat you wanted in your face and can’t have it that’s what your boobs are in a bra just give them up he will love them

  • What a question, of course!

  • You're ashamed of showing your bf your boobs but you're okay with taking mirror selfies?

    • I'll still answer your question, doe. Yes that would be extremely annoying. How can I be all nude and vulnerable and you not do the same? That makes no sense and it would make me feel less appreciated.

  • Yes, because we males want to see and play with your tits.

  • I'd hate a bra in bed.
    Just start gradually by doing it in the dark, fluffy nighty, later more exposed and dimmed light. Then ask him to wash your back in the shower.

  • we guys love to play nipples and breasts. Its a added turn on. So please remove them if you want satisified sex

  • No man you should just put on A Tshirt if you want to hide your Boobs

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