Guys : do your find it gross seeing/feeling hips bones and ribs of your partner?

Question

I'm a skinny girl, not anorexic it's just the way I'm. In bed my ex once told me something like "ugh it's so disgusting we feel all your bones", he was talking about my ribs and hips bone. Since that I'm afraid to show my body to other guys...
Do all guys feel the same about this?

Loveleigh · Accepted Answer

I think your ex is an idiot. As a thin/petite girl myself, it has taken me a while to learn to love myself like I should. (Especially with the media bashing on "skinny ---ches" all the time). You'll find yourself questioning this whether from guys, strangers, and even your friends. You have to remember that you are beautiful the way you are and the people that are not okay with you, are not meant to be near you nor should you give them a second chance.

I've come to the realization that the people not okay with you are directly not okay with themselves. As long as you're healthy, you're perfect. :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

White men tend to like flat butts and narrow hips like this:  Black, Latino, and Asian men tend to like booties like this

xPoison · Accepted Answer

Well at least he is an ex now abs he's e's an ex fit a reason. Who gives a hell what he has to say. I'd only encourage you to gain weight if you're like underweight or something

Fortres · Accepted Answer

What an asshole.

I have a really hard time, cause it's not something you can talk about, but I really, really like bones. Ribs, ankles, the bones in your hands and feet, collar bones hips and jaw. I like to see it and most of all I like to feel it. Doesn't mean a girl has to be unhealthy skinny, she's just bony. There may be nothing that I love more
/shrug

Tonymoulls · Accepted Answer

Nothing wrong at all with you, it's just the way you are. I know its harder but find a guy that likes you for who you are, if he doesn't like you being so skinny... fuck em!

forgottenmonkey · Answer

Hell no I love tiny girls, with that said I also love larger women both are amazing. But tiny girls are great and no it does not bug me to feel their bones.