Is there a way to stop squirting? I hate it?

[Anonymous]

A few months ago I just randomly started squirting when I orgasm. I really don't like doing it. It feels good but too much like I'm peeing all over my bed, and the build up to it feels like too much pressure that retracts from my pleasure. When it releases it comes in uncontrollable streams that I have little control over because I shake a lot when it happens. Can anyone please give any heads up on how I can have dry orgasms again?

[kabooms]

Generally, squirting is associated with pressure being applied to the G-Spot which in turn stimulates the skene's gland. If you focus on clitoral stimulation, this will make it much less likely that you will squirt as you aren't pleasuring the regions of your body ordinarily necessary for squirting. I may be wrong here as you could be squirting from clitoral stimulation rather than vaginal stimulation since the concept of squirting is relatively poorly studied. As far as I know, focusing on clitoral rather than vaginal stimulation will decrease this likelihood greatly. If it doesn't help, I'd recommend folding a towel hotdog style and laying on half of it with the other half running between your legs and over your stomach so it can at least catch the liquid and minimize laundry.

Hope that helps

[Anonymous]

It is not something you can cease.

[Asker]

Surely there must be a way?

[Opinion Owner]

... Fine, two suggestions: 1. An Oversized Object will prevent squirting in most cases so something relatively thick inside the vagina. The pressure itself doesn't cause the squirting and can even suppress it thus why there are many complaints about how it's not doable anecdotally and why it makes sense relating to the lack of variation on the Skene's as well as Grafenburg relative to pressure. 2. Alter the stimulation: Generally speaking there is some trigger that is predictable in human orgasm so if you use a high-powered vibrator use the lower settings and take more time, if you concentrate on a specific area spread it around and lower the intensity, or if you work towards this in a specific position or relating to a specific angle shift it. Obviously this works both ways so if it's not localized, localize, if it's not pressured then pressurize it, etc. But I'm just a man.

[Asker]

Thank you, I can see how those tips could help :)

[Opinion Owner]

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[sexyredhead]

Does it only happen during sex? Or does it happen during masturbation as well? Like is it only when you are involved in some form of penetration or during clitoral orgasm? sorry for all the questions but i am generally curious

[Asker]

Haha it's okay, yes it happens with both, but there's usually a higher volume when I do it through penetration, both through fingering and a penis.

[sexyredhead]

I can definitely understand why you wouldn't want it to happen every time, but the fact that you can have a squirting orgasm through clitoral stimulation makes me jealous haha. I understand to an extent though, cause when i am horny i get extremely wet, like if i am just out doing other thing and am horny, even if im not having sex or anything, and it can be frustrating on its own

[reptocarl]

You should embrace it. There are a lot of women that want to and can't. Prepare for it by using like puppy pads underneath you. Its a huge turn on for most guys

[Calvin369]

Agreed... a lot of guys think it's hot too! Embrace the squirts!

[reptocarl]

Count yourself lucky

[Asker]

So I shouldn't stop just because guys like it? This is for me not a guy I have to deal with it every time I masturbate :(

[reptocarl]

The only way you'll stop is to stop having orgasms. Plan for it. Make preparations to contain it

[swampdonkeys]

A dry orgasm sounds like no fun at all...

[Asker]

Squirting was fun for a while, now it's just annoying. I preferred my dry orgasms.

[blondfrog]

Or you could just masturbate in the bathroom that way you won't have to worry about cleaning up the mess.

[Anonymous]

It's better to squirt because then you can bust on a guys face. Most guys I know prefer to get some nice squirt on themselves.

[Asker]

Lol guys actually like that o_o

[Anonymous]

Why? You should count yourself lucky

[Asker]

Why is it lucky?

[Opinion Owner]

Cuz i guess with massive orgasm are hard to find