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I didn't realize he came during a bj, this happens a lot! X)?

I was giving my (new) boyfriend oral sex/a bj and he was moaning like he was cumming, it was real wet but not explosive like you'd expect when cumming (from p*rn at least... I am a bit inexperienced..) I thought it was just my saliva or precum and I swallowed it. He was still still very hard... I kept sucking him hard trying to make him cum, I was getting tired and looked at him and said "cum for me baby" and he said "I already did" He was still rock hard. Guys would you feel embarrassed if this happened... also Girls would you feel embarrassed to be the girl and not realize he came.. lol.. Has anyone had this happen to them, is it common? We had sex two nights before so maybe that's why he didn't cum much at all. I am inexperienced like I said, so please explain:) With my ex boyfriend this would happen all the time... I would be sucking his dick for a long time after he came, thinking he still hasn't came... one more question would that feel good or would it be annoying, sensitive, etc?
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  • Since you're a bit in experienced... I will tell you this off hand.
    Never compare your sex life to p*rn .

    A lot of those people spend hours preparing their bodies just to have the performance that you
    are watching.
    That includes taking pills, (cutting scenes in and out, extending footages) to make it seem like it
    was the best sex ever.

    The reality of it is... sometimes a guy cums a full load.
    And sometimes he doesn't.

  • Some guys dribble, some shoot, some do both. So if you were drooling and he dribbled, it sounds normal for you not to realize he came. Especially if his cum doesn't taste salty. And for your last question, my boyfriend doesn't like to be touched for 5-10 minutes after cumming because it hurts.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's normally very noticeable to my gf when it happens but a week or two ago, the same thing happened to me. We had sex earlier in the day so it wasn't as explosive and she thought it was just precum. It's not a big deal and I wasn't offended or anything. She kept going and I asked her to stop. She asked why and was surprised when I told her I came. It does get over sensitive and doesn't feel good if you keep going.

    • ok that's good to know that it doesn't feel good afterwards. I think most guys want to drown the girl in cum ya know so to get "oh you came?" is not the best response for the ego. haha but not much you can do if you are having sex often... the come needs time to restore in the body or something like that. Thanks for your response.. I don't feel so bad now.:)

    • Yeah, don't feel bad at all. Like someone else mentioned, it'll come with experience as well.

  • Not knowing when/if your boyfriend (s) came. I put that down as inexperience. Very few guys pop like they do in p*rn .
    They stay rock hard? I want whatever it is that they are taking.
    If you keep sucking after he cums it feels good. Yes he's more sensitive and that's what feels good. If he wanted you to stop he would let you know.

    • Oh and having sex 2 days before will not affect the quantity. If he masturbated 2 or 3 times in the day you gave him the BJ. Then his cum would likely be reduced.

    • yes he could have masturbated earlier in the day... but that would have been a dumb choice if he knew we were going to meet up... He was still rock hard afterwards... maybe he didn't actually come? Or is it normal to still be hard afterwards?

    • staying hard after cumming is rare. Although in your teens/early twenties you can get hard again after a short period of time. I can't see any guy saying he came. When he actually didn't

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  • If he was hard then he probably didn't
    and lol yes p*rn makes the cum seem like a shooting star but in reality its a soft flow

    • haha yes p*rn is not the greatest for actually learning about sex... Sometimes they even use fake cum. lol. I was thinking that too, if he was hard then he hadn't came yet... hm, what if he just told me he did so I would stop for some reason...

    • Was he cut? If he was then the head starts to sting real bad when you stimulate it repeated

    • yes he is circumcised

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  • "cum for me baby"... goddamn- what magic words those are darling!

    He may be MB'ing to p*rn if he is slow and low on cum. If you want a detailed answer for how to do a great BJ write me.

    • sure i love to talk about bj's/sex and learn what tips you have, I would message you but I want to stay anonymous (maybe we can figure something out?) I am thinking he didn't cum hard because he snuck into my room and my parents were literally walking past my door every few seconds.. maybe he was nervous, also we are a very new couple... but the last bj was in a movie theater and he came a decent amount... so you'd think you'd be equally as nervous there... especially because it was the first time having sex and he might not have known I like to swallow;)

  • You said "you love to talk about bj's/sex" I can give you tips or talk more about it if you want.

  • I got hard reading this. Sorry. You must be quite a proficient sexual partner...

    • hehe what part did you like the best? X)

    • "Cuz for me, baby."

    • "Cum"

  • Often cum doesn't shoot out like in p*rn , it just dribbles.

    • Two days ago when I gave him a bj it did shoot out (this was our first time having sex).. so is the dribbled cum likely because he is having sex more frequently now? If he takes a break he will likely come harder?

    • Yes that often happens.

  • If he came really quickly then he probably had a small load

    • man I was so horny and gave him a really good bj, he came withing 5 minutes maybe..

  • sometimes happens if you try not to cum, in the end you cum just a little but you still hard. its not a very good ending but if you keep blowing he will enjoy it for a long time! ask him to be a week without masturbating or sex and then blow him. you will see the difference in cuantity and pleasure

    • Thank you that was helpful... I think I know what may have effected it... he snuck in to my room and my parents were still up and walking by my door... he was likely very nervous, also we are a very new couple... yes I think overtime the sex will get better and he will cum harder.

  • Might be one of those guys that never masturbates. No cum release no need to make more = 2 droplets of cum

    • I always thought the more you hold off the harder and more you will cum... interesting... I guess he needs to masturbate more...

  • I dribble weakly and have thin sperm. Do you still want my hot body?

    • I know your a troll... but "dribbled" cum is normal when he's having frequent sex.. right? Anyone can chime in..

    • It's not something relative to frequency of sex.

    • The time before this he didn't cum very much.. a decent amount but not what I remember from my ex boyfriends.. with them it was two big gulps to get down, and my mouth would be full.. with him it was just half a gulp/teaspoon maybe. lol... could it mean he's unhealthy? Why doesn't he cum very much?

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