Why is penis size so important?

[Anonymous]

Why do people think penis size is so important? Most people fail to realize that vaginas come in different shapes and sizes, and also different strength of constrictiveness... not every woman has an anaconda-like grip. So why is vagina size almost never looked at? And why do women get to voice their preferences when all most women do is lay on their back while the does most of the work? What do they bring to the table that makes them think they deserve what they prefer? Anyway, what's so bad about having a small penis? The g spot is only 2-3 inches in so a smaller harder penis would focus on it more, and potentially give her squirting g spot orgasms (I think if a a girl has a big vagina she will want average-large cock, if she has a small vagina she will want small-average cock) now before you say I am an angry guy with a small dick... i will tell you that I am a proud guy with a small super hard cock! 4.5 inches of tungsten carbide in my pants! Yeeeeeeehaaaaaawww

[goofballhero79]

It's not exactly the length it the width. Wider is better. You can have a long penis but if it's skinny woman will not be please but if it's wide then that makes a difference. I've been told for many years by woman to stop worrying about the length of your penis. They like it wider so you can stretch it. As long as you know how to use it then your good. I think I'm a little lucky in both departments but my theory in having sex is ladies first. Like baking her cake and saving your frosting for last. Stop worrying about size if she wants it from then you golden besides sex is not only supposed to be physical but mental too. Play games and heat up the moment so it can be exciting. If you worry about size you come off as someone who has low self-esteem and woman are attracted to men with confidence. Your size will be a plus to them. So be proud and don't give a damn what other people think. That's just me! : )

[Tractorbeam]

Most (about 80%) of women would be happy with a cock size 7-1/2"- 8", especially if put to good use, but it's a not a big concern.
Most women would also prefer a cock 3" smaller on a man who's 3" taller. Height wins.

[Anonymous]

Honestly size doesn't matter to me. Because my last boyfriend was pretty big but I never enjoyed it because he was boring and old fashion. We never did anything spontaneous. But my recent boyfriend, who I've been dating for some time now, isn't as big. But what he lacks in length he makes up for in pleasure. He's truly the best. And honestly a little fun. I don't think men should worry about size because great things come in all sizes ( big, medium, or small 😉)

[Asker]

yay so my little thang can be great :D

[bombamboum]

Most women are really tolerant with penis sizes. Men are the one pressuring themselves, comparing to others. Many ask here because the feel insecure about their sizes. All they see are men in p*rn with huge penis.

[Asker]

I am not insecure, I love mine.

[bombamboum]

I'm generalizing here, it's like women with their breast. So even when you were a teenager, you didn't feel the need to compare, you had no insecurities.

[Asker]

Well I am still a teenager, almost twenty and I'm not ashamed... yet... >.>

[bombamboum]

I said that because it was written over 35. Well, that's good for you but you have to admit than a lot of teenagers and even men feel insecure about this part of their body.

[Asker]

Ya because they are scrubs and do not know how to take pride in what they have.

[Musicazuregirl]

Size doesn't manner. Wish guys would stop worrying.

[Red_Dragon]

It does in some context.

[Red_Dragon]

That G-spot argument is just ignorance. It's expected, because they really don't know. It's pure ignorance.

[Asker]

? What do you mean

[Red_Dragon]

Okay first thing is that size has nothing to do with if a guy can get fully hard or not. Big penises can get just as hard erect as a small one can. I don't know who came up with the myth that small penises are harder than big ones. Not true. The issue here is time. A bigger penis has to have more blood to fill it up. Thus it takes more time to get fully hard as opposed to a small penis. That doesn't mean a big one can't get just as hard. It just means it takes a little more time. The only problem here is you said something about focus. The G-spot ultimately is actually horizontally longer than you think even though vertically it is only about 2-3 inches. A more girthy penis can touch more of the G-spot horizontally and thus give more stimulation. Vertically a guy with a lengthy penis has more to slide across a the G-spot and thus if him and a smaller penis guy are going the same speed and at the same deepness (deep stroking) the bigger one has more going across the G-spot.

[Asker]

False. A small penis can get more rigid and there for grind the g spot harder and more firmly, and then spot is an area of sensitive nerve bundles that is around the size of a dime to a quarter. Big ones are more likely to slide pass and not put as much focus on it, it also depends on the angles too.

[Red_Dragon]

More rigid? Can you explain that? What do you mean? No a big penis can get just as hard. I just explained why. Well first of all studies after studies are claiming that the g-spot doesn't even exist, so even that covenant spot y'all like to hype up is debatable.

www.medicaldaily.com/italian-scientist-says-g-spot-doesnt-exist-cuv-region-new-erogenous-zone-may-hold-key-300056

www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...-myth_n_5947930.html

healthmedicinet.com/.../

www.salon.com/.../

Even if it does exist a bigger penis is going to push the lower urethra up more (think of it as when you put your fingers in there) and Gräfenberg claims that females get sexual pleasure from stimulation of that. If it exist a big penis still can stimulate it better. As much penis as there is there's no way it would slide passed it. I'd need evidence of that. Also the bigger it is the less angles it needs because it takes up more space, which takes up more angles. That's kind of common sense sort of.

[Asker]

Rigid is not the same as hardness... Rigid means its ability to stay up at its highest possible erection angle, that helps put lots of pressure on the g spot...

[Red_Dragon]

You still believe in the G-spot? Well anyway in THAT regard angle isn't dependent on penis size exactly. Guys can have any kind of angle with any size dick, so I don't get your argument there either.

[Asker]

... Its the ability to maintain that angle while pressure is being applied downward upon the penis...

[Red_Dragon]

Ohh so you're argument is still on hardness? I already explained again that a big penis can get hard and stay hard just as well as a small/average one can. Don't believe the myth.

[BertMacklinFBI]

I suppose you have a point, I've heard that g-spot argument for ages.

[abundantlyrich]

In a superficial western world.. yeah size matters

[bubble_tea]

I voted D.

[scrap422]

I think most women want a 6-7 inch penis but just tell you size doesn't matter because they want more play time before and after intercourse

[talk2dheeru]

Size is not the actual problem that a couple is facing.
The main thing is their approach. If they prolong der intercourse (kissing, oral, cuddling...) to min 45mins, der u can achieve maximum satisfaction even though ur penis is SMALL.

[Anonymous]

Size does not matter you insecure prat.

[Asker]

Lol I'm not insecure, no need for name calling, that's for children.

[Anonymous]

Size really really doesn't matter as much as some of the sad bastards on this website insist it does.

The only people who should be that obsessed with cocks are closeted gay men.

[Anonymous]

Why is penis size so important?
Because it helps to boost the owners self-stem.