I love sex, but I have the cockfright? Help!?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have had sex for little more than a half year now. I was a virgin when I meet him, and since I have popped my cherry we do it all the time. . Even if we are active I some how always scared to "sit on it", cause it still hurts so much - only in the beginning. Just the though of it scares me. We use lub, but still it feels like I am about to sit on a big knife, not pleasant. What to do? I though sex would get better with time... I guess I have cockfright, cause my vagina is always nervous the day before.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you need more foreplay. Make site you are soaking wet before he puts it in. You can use all the lube in the world but unless you are extremely horny and wet it will still be to tight. My wife had the same problem. Lots of oral, kissing, and fingering.

[AustinMan]

I suggest you have an orgasm first so you know you're really ready and then mount up. If it's still too painful, see your GYN and make sure there's not a reason. If so, the doc can very likely fix it.

[slackercruster]

Have him eat you and finger you well during foreplay. You should be loosened up some. Maybe he is a 'big boy' and it goes with the territory.