I'm in a long distance relationship and a virgin planning on meeting him soon but my concern is sex?

[Anonymous]

Okay so we've been doing online sex via Skype and he always tells me what to do. One finger I can fit alright, 2 fingers is a struggle and a bit painful to put in but I manage and just the other night he wanted me to use the hairbrush handle. It hurt a lot and I only got the very tip in I told him it hurts too much to put it deeper and he was just like "force it" and when I said it's so painful he was like "good baby it will hurt with my dick too push it in" Is that weirdly tight or normal for a virgin? (I never got it properly in). His dick is 10 inches and also thick I've seen it on Skype. The first time really scares me is it going to be really bad for me?

[Wayne_us]

Keep your virginity!
What are you looking to get out of this relationship?
This guy clearly wants sex!
And there might be no relationship after you meet and he has sex with you.
He either wants to have a sex with a virgin and then dump you or he just wants to use you for sex.
But it doesn't sound like he wants something else.

Don't give away your virginity!

[brendaa]

that's totally normal for a virgin. But you guys are just meeting. I don't think you guys should have sex on your first meet. Then that's all the guy will think about when you meet is sex.

[Anonymous]

Oh my god you sound like you're in the same situation as me 0__0... I think when ypu go meet just relax when his dick is in.