Ladies is seeing the outline of a man's penis through his bathing suit ok, gross, sexy whats your take on it?

Are men especially in North America to self- conscious about wearing speedo type suits or should we be wearing shorts to the beach?
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So based on the remarks by women to this question what kind of swimwear can a man get away with?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • To me, it is a little disconcerting to see the complete outline, but you guys can't do much about it honestly. Although I do prefer you guys were boxer shorts, or just make sure it's not too tight, because it's almost like TMI.
    On the other hand, I have wondered the vice versa. Sometimes when I wear leggings or tight jeans, my outline would show and I would feel a little self conscious about it. What do you guys think if you saw it? What are you thoughts and reactions? (Sorry to ride on your question like this!)

    • Its all good AU my question was more geared to mens swimwear and how much it too much for public beaches. I'm in the minority it seems seeing the outline of a mans genitals in a speedo doesn't bother me nor does seeing a outline from a woman in leggings or anything. I remember learning boys have a penis and girls have a vagina in grade 1 why would mature adults get do bent out of shape by this?

    • I wouldn't necessarily say get bent out of shape. I'm sure part of people's brains will realize that it's just part of the anatomy, it is what it is. more of a preference. And yes we all have had our anatomy lessons, but the best way I can describe this is, we all know our parents have that same anatomy, but we don't necessarily want to see it. Hope that clarifies. Sorry to bring up another point of the debate, but some people may be able to totally get away with it, if he so happens to look good in a Speedo. As opposed to an elderly who decides to wear a Speedo to the beach.

    • That's fair enough

Most Helpful Guy

  • As ugly as speedos are, I think it's kinda silly some girls find the outline of a penis gross and off putting when in reality the man cannot do much about it. Girls want big to avarage size dicks. Well that's what you get and see when you're the least avarage.

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  • Umm, no. That's kinda gross.

    • Why is it ok for women to wear swimsuits with their cleavage showing, and their camel toe and ass showing than? In a world where ladies had fought for equal rights. It sounds and IS really sexist if you ask anyone who is for equal rights.

  • Girls find men to ugly to wear those

  • please eneve wear a speedo its really offputting to see your junk and outline squashed into a ball and your butt cheeks hanging out, kids at the beach have to look at that too you know

  • To me it's trashy and disgusting. I don't want to see some random dudes outline. To me it shows he either doesn't care about showing his stuff off or he is trying to get attention. Not sexy or attractive to me.

    • I guess i'm wondering why society demands men take such care to cover up while a girl in a bikini at the beach is ok?

    • Take such care to cover up? Your kidding right? Guys cover their junk and butt, that's it. Girls have to cover this girl parts and butt... PLUS they have to cover their breasts. Girls have to cover more then guys do! So your comment is totally off-base.

    • lets think this through a speedo covers a mans genitals and butt you can an outline of his genitals why so off putting. After all you can see more than an outline of a womans breasts in most swimwear im not saying that's bad.

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