Why do men like anal sex?

[kathleenkelley13]

A lot of guys I know always mention loving/wanting butt sex and I wanted to know why. Why would you want that if a woman already has a good looking hole AND natural lubrication.

[Anonymous]

Why do men like anal? It is:

- tighter, especially around the opening, which feels fantastic
- deeper because there's no cervix to bump into
- exquisitely smooth inside
- no risk of pregnancy
- very sensual, erotic and intimate
- I love the look on her face when she orgasms that way

There is a common misconception that women don't enjoy anal sex; that it's just a selfish desire on the part of men. Not true. Unfortunately, most women are introduced to anal the wrong way. It's painful and they are turned off to it forever, which is sad. Women who are introduced to it properly and given a chance to adjust to it over time tend to love it and have their most intense orgasms that way. I've been in several relationships with women who enjoyed anal and wanted it regularly.

[7heDubz]

Anal... I cannot explain it. It simply is a major turn-on for me. I have theories as to why but none of them are ones that could be applied to all men everywhere that like anal.

The theory that applies to myself (theory, never tried so I don't know) is that since I'm always so into the girls want (which is also a turn on for me) / I'm kind of a pushover in life there are 2 things in particular that are turn-ons for me that seem really unlikely and weird for me to enjoy given I prefer "her" pleasure. (her ends in mutual pleasure so it's not like I get nothing out of it)

[LastGirlScout]

Because its so tight, it's taboo, for most women its rather uncomfortable which means you're doing it for him, a submission of sorts. Knowing your lady wants to get down and dirty with you, that she's naughty in bed. Very psychological.

[why_not_anonymous]

This has a lot of truth in it.

[cavmanier]

I've never thought of it like that. I think quite a few girls are into it.

[LastGirlScout]

@cavmanier I enjoy it, but there's definitely some domination/submission psychology going on for sure. I think guys often find it even more of a turn on when women do enjoy it because there's the idea that they aren't supposed to. And of course there's always the psychological aspect of the tightness: if it's that tight it means my penis must be enormous!

[cavmanier]

To me if it turns them on, I like that. It's basically that simple.

[LastGirlScout]

@cavmanier of course I'm making sweeping generalisations. Everyone is different, but I'm not believing you do it and get 100% enjoyment from her pleasure and none of your own physical enjoyment. Sorry, just not buying it :)

[cavmanier]

I meant opposed to the other stuff. Of course it can be pleasurable for us too lol. There may be some domination stuff there. I don't remember and it's not like I always feel the same way I did a year ago. I just think it can feel good for both which can be enough rather than a bunch of other factors. Of course some guys may want to hurt them I don't know.

[LastGirlScout]

@cavmanier I'm not saying guys want to hurt their girlfriends, but I definitely think there's an element of 'its uncomfortable because my dick is so big but she's still suffering for my pleasure' thing going on, but like I said - I'm making sweeping generalisations. As long as it's all safe, sane and consensual its all good.

[cavmanier]

Yeah I can see some guys thinking that. Kinda sad lol

[pennyroyaltea]

I know right I've asked a guy and he said "it's tighter" OK well it's fucking gross lol

[kathleenkelley13]

I agree lol

[kathleenkelley13]

And most importantly, extremely painful!

[pennyroyaltea]

Yeah it is though! I gave it a try and it felt like I was pooping and it hurt at the same time. ;/

[pennyroyaltea]

and then even if you cleaned really well it's hard not to be paranoid and keep looking back like "there's not poop on it right?"

[kathleenkelley13]

Jeez, it doesn't sound like a very nice experience for a bottom :l I personally have never tried it, or plan on it lol

[pennyroyaltea]

good plan then :D heeyy is kathleen kelley from youve got mail or is that your actual name?

[kathleenkelley13]

Its my name xD

[pennyroyaltea]

oh wow that's awesome then

[beesod]

I think it's loved because it shows a girl is willing to try something taboo to keep her man happy.

It's a bit like swallowing or not minding getting on your knees during sex. They are all things that express love towards a guy and that you care about pleasing him.

I think most guys would at least want you to try it and in there dreams they probably hope you enjoy it. If you don't, or even don't try it at all its not a deal breaker.

[Sezra]

I've never liked the idea of anal, and I've never tried it...

[Thewhitestdudeever]

I don't know I used to think it was cool and now I realize it's stupid lol, why would anyone want shit on their dick?

[mistninja314]

up vote but this man right here LMAO and i feel the same though

[Thewhitestdudeever]

Sorry I just love vaginas lol

[Tractorbeam]

One reason could be that they're homosexual.
On ass is is good as another, if you don't have to look at the face.

[kairon156]

I have no idea. to me a bum is a no go zone. personally I find the idea of anal gross.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Because its fun and kinky

[Nylena]

from the guys I had anal sex with I know they like it mostly because it's kinky and it feels even tighter

[komikev]

Tightness of the anus that and if done right it can be a whole new turn on for woman. I get turned on by seeing her turned on and seeing her get turned by both holes is just sexy.

[scorpio100]

Only thing equal to a pussy is a woman's mouth, both hot and sexy. Anal doesn't appeal, apart from licking around the edges of course, as long as the woman enjoys it :)

[cavmanier]

I guess because I like every part of them. Just because I like strawberries more than, say an apple, doesn't mean I won't eat apples.

[BreannaBanana]

... which one is the sttawberry.

[cavmanier]

Switch the word strawberry for cherry @BreannaBanana

[imbittered_punk]

Because we like it when you're in a little bit of pain.
but seriously it's just a forbidden thing that's a bit of an unusual treat.

[abundantlyrich]

It's about punishment

[BEatenyou]

Its this whole idea that the anal hole is tighter and nicer for the men. Even though I have had anal sex and its really not that bad, but i still prefer regualar sex. Could be that some men are also secretly gay and very curious, especially since fingerin a mans asshole feels great for us.

[BreannaBanana]

Come on people EXIT ONLY

[AdamThomas]

No idea. I tried it once, never again. I felt like it was getting ripped off.

[kangy]

they love anal sex and bj, it is for their own pleasure which i find selfish

[jag420]

I like vaginas way too much, so i have no real desire for anal. They are fascinating and far more sexy than a butt hole and are a far bigger turn on, from the the smell to the feel and look of them.

[cth96190]

I do not know what proportion of men like anal sex, but for me the idea is disgusting. If I wanted to get shit on my penis I would have become a poofter.

[kathleenkelley13]

Haha its nice to know there are men out there who are hygeniec as to this topic

[larry69]

No anal. Exit only.

[DoraLikesSugar]

It's tighter than a pussy.