Why does my bf nut so quick, like 1 or 2 minutes into sex he's already bustin!!! Help am I the problem?

I always suck him off previous to sex, we only fuck 1 or 2 a week. And our sex only last 2 minutes or less : / he claims I'm the best and blah blah then why can't he last in bed. You'd think if someone was that great in bed they'd keep goin lol... help pleaseeee
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  • The better you are... the faster he's likely to cum.

    The oral prior is a good idea actually, but try to dial the intensity down, don't build up to sex, instead get him relaxed and enjoying sensation before moving to sex, and have him initially focus on getting relaxed and into a 'steady state'.

    Having sex much much more often would help too.

  • Sucking someone off is sucking them to the point of cumn. I think you mean you give him head before sex. Try not to do that if you want him to last longer plus increase sex to 4 or 5 times per week for better results

Most Helpful Girls

  • I had the same problem. I told him straight up that I am NOT happy-- and it got better ☺️.

    That tactic may not work for everyone though. My guy was defensive at first, I understood why, we gave each other spaces for a couple of days. When we did start again, he paced himself, more foreplay, now he lasts about 45-60 minutes.

    • I tell him he doesn't seem to care... even went out n bought some lingerie, that made it last about 20 min lol. Other than that, he's just a quickie. Eh

    • You're better than me, I would have left after the first "meh." Not because of the bad sex, but because that's insensitive. You told him how you felt and he could care less. Good luck Cass :/

  • I think it's common: www.nerve.com/.../which-states-have-the-longest-and-shortest-sex

    It doesn't have anything to do with you, and make sure he's being fair about pleasuring you back!

  • Either you need to be having more sex or he needs to be jacking off more.

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  • He needs to..."Relax, don't do it, when you wanna get to it. RELAX, don't do it... when you wanna Cum... hehehehehe...80s

  • VIAGRA please

  • I can bust like 5 times and keep going for hours.

    • See we hardly have sex. And when he nuts, its over with. We dont have round 2 nothing. Regardless if i came