Why do some girls like to be spanked and whipped?

Seeing as these activities actually hurt, why would a girl want to do such things? Why would it feel good?
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  • i dont think they like it. i think they know its 'in' and guys like them to like it. or thy bf wants it or they think hell leave if they are not adventerous enough and somehow adventure for a woman mans letting the guy do w/e he wants to especially if it causes pain... so by way of protective mechanism they convince themselves they like it. otherwise things would feel very dreary. a lot of guys will reward her doing stuff he wants and punish otherwise... so the only way shell get validation.

    some women probably just genuinely like intense physical feeling. but i dont think thats the majority. bc the amount of women claiming to like it seems to go up the more 'in' it is. and the more competition from p*rn strs there seems to be. if they just liked it they'd have always just liked it.

    are not you curious why a guy would want to do that to his gf? why is it you can't understand why a woman wold want it but your not one bit curious as how a guy would want to DO it?

    do you think its normal for a guy to want to inflict pain but only odd for a woman to want to receive it?

    bc my guess is for the guys who like doing it, rationalize, if they like doing it women must like getting it bc women & men are made to fit sexually... what pleases men mist please women. ... she just 'doesnt' know until he shows her. bc women need men to tell them what they like sexually. *sarcasm*

    • The only reason I would want to do it is if the girl was into it, and she brought it up in the first place... every girl I've ever gotten to know sexually was into this in some way

    • thats you. a lot of people (women or men) want it so their partner obliges.

    • Yes. There is a line. One time I was in a p*rno store and they had bondage p*rno of girls suspended like lifeless pieces of meat on hooks. That's not really what I'm into. Lol. More of a light spanking. And only if she likes it, I'm not really into it all that much anyway.

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  • it's really difficult for me to explain it in English but since I'm borderline to masochistic it probably doesn't matter anyway. lol
    when I'm horny that pain just feels completely different than normal, I get some kind of pleasure out of it which I really enjoy,. can't really explain why, but you can google for "Algolagnia" to find more out about that topic

    • Masochistic girls are a HUGE turn on for me. She and I get to experiment with what I feel is our natural sexual relationship. I love making her do things for me and pushing her limits as to what she thought she could do.

  • I think it really depends on the girl and then how you're doing it. Some girls like it, and if you're careful, it's more of a tingling sensation rather than a painful one. You just have to take into consideration that there's a fine line between pleasure and pain, in this type of thing. Also depends on the person. Plus, some people are just masochists...

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  • 1. Many girls have an innate desire to be submissive, and to be dominated by a strong man. This allows them to play that out.

    2. The pain associated with being spanked also tends to heighten all sensitivity, so that pleasure is also increased. Plus, many people find that pain, delivered the right way and with the right mindset, is very close to pleasure.

    3. Pain can provide a release that some people desperately need. If you are stressed over something and can't relax, then sometimes a spanking/flogging/whipping will take your mind off of it and give you peace that nothing else will.

    4. Pain can make you reach a state of euphoria, similar to a "runner's high", where your body is flooded with endorphins and you kind of feel like you are leaving your body and almost floating. In the BDSM world, this "high" is called "sub-space", which is a play on words both referencing Star Trek and the feeling a SUBmissive feels when in mental "outer SPACE."

    Girls aren't the only ones who like this - there are plenty of submissive men too, though it's true that submissive women are more common.

  • Women and men fit together physically and mentally. But, that's a gross generality. It's not always true.
    Girls, who love being girls, are submissive to guys who are comfortable with themselves. Girls like to give in and accept. Guys like to dish it out and, somethimes, make the girls perform for them.
    OF course, that's a gross generality.
    I've found when my girlfriend is giving me shit, she is doing it to provoke me. She wants me to respond; and I do. I'll give her a spanking. . . that hurts. It isn't some little sex escapade, it's a light form of punishment. She likes being punished from time to time because she wants to know that I AM in charge and she can't push me around with her feminine ways. She also knows that other girls can't push me around either and that makes her more secure in the fact that I DO love HER and am not going to get tricked by some vixen out there who just wants to count the number of relationships she can break up just because she's a cute bitch.

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  • For some girls, pain = pleasure.

    Also, there is no pleasure without pain (or light without dark, good/evil, etc) so for some having the dichotomy increases the sensation of the other.

    Moral of the story: don't whip your girl with a chain unless she asks you to.

  • Probably for the same reason some guys like to be spanked and whipped.

  • It's a fetish. Some people get off from pain and being dominated. I also like to be whipped. :P

  • I'm a girl and I love to be verbally abused and spanked in the bed I don't know why but its so hot like when I get really stressed id wish my man would grab my hair and me from behind and whisper demands in my ear while doing what he wants to me. Dont get me wrong I like vanilla to an extent though and aftercare is pretty much the same thing in my eyes anyways a lot of bdsm relationships require after care its a actual thing look it up

  • There is a thin line between pleasure and pain and when doled out right spankings and whippings can be quite enjoyable... It also has to do with the state of mind you go into when being whipped/spanked.

  • It makes me feel naughty, and I like that show of control... just typin about it turns me on..

    • So it's about giving up control?

    • Love her answer!!!

  • psychological issues honestly. thats just retarded.

  • It's not harsh beatings. It's firm stimulation. There is a very fine line between pain and pleasure. The two can merge if the mood is right.

    • I have seen girls at a bondage club with bruises all over them because they like being suspended on a rig and their tits slapped mercilessly.

    • Holy fucking fuck, why were you there?

    • I Googled it and just went for fun. I just sat and watched. Some of the girls looked like they were orgasming from the pain.

  • It doesn't actually feel good, they like it because they grew up thinking this is what guys like to hear from them. They just like to feel desired and this is how they view desire.

    You'll notice that many of the people who like to be spanked or whipped during sex are sort of social outcasts, or they are catholic and very religious. There's a reason for this.