GUYS : small penises are a turn off for me, how would you feel , knowing a girl feels that way?

[Anonymous]

I find it a turn off if a guy has a small penis, i can't help feeling like that, it turns me off, i only get satisfaction from guys with over average sized penises, i dont mean huge, just not small, cos it does nothing for me, i feel guilty finishing with guys cos of it, but i can't be turned on at all, if its small, would it upset you if you knew thats why a girl finished with you , cos the size of your penis didn't do anything for her?

[Anonymous]

We would feel devastated, and we already know that is the case for some women even if they don't admit it. I don't think you are wrong for having a preference, but it can still be hurtful for a lot of guys. It is a trait that can't be helped, so it makes the person feel powerless to change it. I would rather her lie about the reason she is dumping me.

That is why he should find a woman that appreciates the traits he does have, and won't feel like she settled for an undesirable man. It is also one of the reasons guys don't want to wait until after marriage for sex. They want to know their are "compatible" in that sense. It isn't just about making sure the woman is good in bed, but also about making sure she is satisfied as well. No guy wants to find out his wife hates having sex with him. That could ruin a marriage.

[Asker]

Thank you, aww id never hurt a guys feelings and tell him the truth, i love your conment,

[SomeoneImportant]

I assume by finished you mean break up. No I wouldn't care lol, nothing I can do about what I'm packing, it is what it is. If a girl did leave me because of it, then oh well, on to the next one.

[Asker]

Yes i mean break up, ok thanks for comment, i try not to let it bother me, but can't help it, sex isn't the most important thing, i know, but when two people meet, they do think about sex a lot with each other

[SomeoneImportant]

People can say what they want about liking someone for who they are, but whether or not two people are sexually compatible can make or break a relationship.

[SomeoneImportant]

So I agree with ya

[Asker]

Yes i totally agree, i couldnt have sex with a guy for the sake of havinh sex i would have to like him as a person first and be sexually attracted to him,

[abundantlyrich]

been with too many guys with finger sized penis?

[Asker]

Yes im taking below 6inches i dont like huge ones either

[abundantlyrich]

how tall were these guys?

[JHAYES317]

@abundantlyrich this girl is delusional considering 5 is average

[dakraziest]

lol i would advise to carry a measuring a tape with you and every time you meet a guy, size him to ensure he has what it takes to satisfy you before you start dating him

[Imtheone88]

^ hahaha !!

[Asker]

I dont need too, most guys are above average, its just the small ones that dont turn me on, i wouldn't need to measure cos i would be able to tell as soon as i saw it

[dakraziest]

then you should probably ask a guy to click his penis before he shows you his face anyways jokes apart its your choice, there is nothing wrong with having a preference just dont end up hurting someone super nice because they had a small dick lol the poor dude would be crushed

[Tractorbeam]

@Asker, most guys can't be "above average". By definition, 50% must be below average and 50% are above average.

[Asker]

Ok i see you point thanks @dakraziest i will def consider what you said, i hate feeling this way, cos id hate to hurt someone, id never ever tell a guy that it doesn't turn me on, i would hurt his feelings like that, im not a bad person

[dakraziest]

awe thats so sweet, i want to hug you right now we all have different liking and tastes and its absolutely fine to have preferences, if he has short down low then why dont you include toys to your sex life, i know they aren't as good as a real man but if he is satisfying you emotionally then sexually you can use a little help

[Red_Dragon]

Or she can just get with a big guy.

[Asker]

Reading my questions makes ne think i should have worded it better, i dont sleep around and if i guy had a big penis and i didn't like his personality i wouldn't have sex with him, i was just wanting some guys insight , thanks for your answer, appreciate it a lot, i agree with your statement, you and other guys are starting to help me see things differently and i feel i need to be less shallow in my thinking, id never emotionally hurt someone, by telling them they didn't turn me on, i treat cñpeople with respect, thanks for showing me away of changing how i think

[dakraziest]

yeah your questions raised every flag that there is to raised lol thats why i said carry a measuring tape (sorry for judging you i was like this is a typical bitch), im sure i was wrong and i feel bad now

[Red_Dragon]

Awwwwwwww :)

[Asker]

Its ok, i just worded it incorrectly,

[Red_Dragon]

I'm not small or average. Guess I'm out of luck.

[Leavesbound]

When a guy like me has a tiny penis, he is aware of the possibility. We all have our preferences and yours is a common one. Some guys, like me, compensate by developing oral skills far better than most guys. I even went so far as to pay an oral surgeon to make my tongue longer and I do exercises to increase length and strength of my tongue. Only one girl ever actually liked my 2.5 inch penis but many liked the way I gave head. A guy has to bring something to the table. But if a small penis is a deal breaker then you need to find a guy who has what you need and stick with him.

That said, a guy should always be up front with a woman in that regard. It saves a lot of future heart ache. I don't mean a guy should approach a girl with "Hi, my name is Bob and I have a 4" dick." But it should come up in conversation by the second date so that both parties know they are not wasting their time.

[TadCurious]

"Guys. . . would it upset you if you knew thats why a girl finished with you , cos the size of your penis didn't do anything for her?"

LMAO!!!

[Dr_CEI]

I for one would actually get turned on being told I'm not nig enough for you. I have a small penis humiliation fetish and I'm only 4.5" at best

[bigbossatmdy]

yes. it is a normal. the most girls are fantasize about big p***s.

[Asker]

Thanks for you comment, appreciate it , and for not calling me a whore for feeling this way , like someone else did

[bigbossatmdy]

your welcome. :) my current girl friend told me. "i love you because you are good in bed and more strong and big p**is than ex-bf". thatwhy's i understand you.

[Asker]

Haha ok thanks

[NovemberJoseph]

WTF? @abundantlyrich blocked me?

Please ask her why she blocked me? I can't comment on her opinions. She commented on this question.

Ps: If I had a small penis and you left me for that, I'd probably get pro at oral sex and make you cum via oral stimulation. I would dare you to say my skills didn't turn you on.

[Red_Dragon]

I'll let her know.

[NovemberJoseph]

@Red_Dragon Thanks bruh, I appreciate it

[Asker]

Course oral turns me on!!

[BlastingZone]

How would you feel with a 6.1 and thick

[AllThatSweetJazz]

How small is small? If you're talking about micropenises (less that 3 inches) then duh, I don't think it's weird you think that. Most guys are 5-6 inches, is that acceptable to you?

I'm so glad I don't have a mircopenis by the way. Whenever I'm feeling down, the knowledge that I have a sufficient amount of cock always reminds me that things could be worse lol. Sorry to anyone out there with a micropenis but I'm so glad I'm not you.

[NovemberJoseph]

I feel so bad for people with Micro penis. Prostitution should be legal for just them.

[mistninja314]

@NovemberJoseph im quoting you on my wall man lol

[NovemberJoseph]

@mistninja314 LOL!! Thanks man!!

[mistninja314]

LMAO YOU "THE REAL MVP" kevin durant moment @NovemberJoseph

[Asker]

6 inches fine its below that i mean, i dont like huge penise they are a turn off too

[NovemberJoseph]

@asker What if you thought it was small but he measured it in front of you and it was exactly 6 inches? Lol

[SomeoneImportant]

@NovemberJoseph I hit the floor when I read that lmao. So funny, yet so true.

[Red_Dragon]

Damn. She don't like big or small. Just average. Luckily most guys are around that.

[AllThatSweetJazz]

@Asker Guess what, you pretty much like average guys so I don't think you'll need to worry about hurting a guys feelings very often.

[Asker]

I can tell looking at it if it will satisfy , so no need to measure,

[Ilittles]

Im sure a guy will find something very much a turn off about your body

[cou82]

i would feel ok. if you are turned off by small penises that is your prefference. just be honest and tell me in my opinion. if you had to rub yourself or give you oral to get you finished im ok with that. i couldnt blame you if you couldnt enjoy my smaller penis from experience it is difficult to pleasure and often is required to use my tounge for most women to get them to orgasm which is my main goal...

[Blueeyes81]

It's alright. A hanger for 747's turns me off.

[Xwtxx]

Can you define small?

[Asker]

Below 6 inches

[Dchrls78104]

Oh, just like me with flat chested or overweight girls.

[Strider90]

I wouldn't feel anything because my size is good enough.

[kindnessismagic09]

I would feel fortunate to get such a girl out of my life if things like that really mattered so much, to be honest.

Out of curiosity, how big to class as a reasonable size? I'm 5 and a half inches hard, is that small to you?

[GoldCobra]

Doesn't matter. Still had sex. Hahaha XD

[KeithLane]

I would understand, I feel the same way about women who are way too thin. I don't need all women to like my little dick, just the occasional few.

[dsrice10]

It is for sure your choice, and you should get the size you want. I would not be that guy.

[Littledik]

I understand too mines so tiny I turned gay now I can't believe the size they r