I'm not trying to be freaky or anything ladies, but how do you have an orgasm & not squirt? i've never had an orgasm/climaxed without squirting?

[PrincessTae]

On someone else's question women said they're orgasms were fluids leaking etc. I personally have never experienced that. Every orgasm I've had I squirted. Are you women who aren't squirting positive that you're having an orgasm? If so what does it feel like to you? I use to think I had an orgasm all the time, until I actually had a real one. The only orgasms I get though are from oral sex. When I get an orgasm I squirt, feels good but I can't control the squirting.

[GreaseMonkey68]

Can I have your phone number?

Always wanted to eat some kitty and have a girl squirt in my mouth... drool

[scrap422]

I'm sure you do. Its just small amounts of white stiff coming out you probably don't even know u do it.

[PrincessTae]

Probably but my sister & I throw sex toy parties at times & even the hostess described an orgasm as the one I have. Small amounts of fluids, I think are just what we girls produce to keep us wet during sex. I highly doubt the ones that aren't squirting are really catching orgasms. When my bf would ask me if I came (before I had a real orgasm) I would say yes all the time b/c I use to think I was having orgasms when I really wasn't. Its just something I'm going to look into furthermore b/c I don't really understand & I can't say that girls who aren't squirting aren't having orgasms even though I think it. I can't pass an opinon on something just b/c my experience is different.

[scrap422]

Maybe you are just so use too a squirting orgasm you don't know what a normal orgasm is like. Most women don't have squirting orgasm because they or the guy don't know how to make it happen

[PrincessTae]

Maybe b/c sometimes during intercourse, the sex will be so good & my legs start shaking uncontrollable & I can't really catch my breathe & have to scream... maybe I'm having one then.

[scrap422]

Yes!! Dear I would say you are.

[scrap422]

Thanks for most helpful ;-)

[PrincessTae]

You're welcome :-D

[scrap422]

I messaged you

[ginger_snap]

I get really wet, but does not squirt per se. What is squirting like for you? Is there a lot of fluid?

[PrincessTae]

Yes lots of fluid & warm. It just squirt & I can't stop it, it'll stop on its own. Feels good though. My very 1st orgasm, I was actually embarrassed b/c of the squirting but my partner enjoyed it.

[ginger_snap]

Yeah, I bet. My bf always comments when I get suddenly wet and he likes to lick his fingers when I drip. He would probably enjoy the squit, but I have never done it.

[turnpost]

How do women just wait for there partner to find out they can orgasm? Like you werent at least a bit curious how orgasm would feel before sex?

[Neko_Chan]

Simple, most of us (87%?) lack the ability.

[Hannah591]

I'd say more like 96% and 90% of people who squirt are actually peeing themselves.

[PrincessTae]

FYI I liked your opinion! There isn't really an ability to lack though! Most of us who squirt don't try, it just happens. That's why I was curious about those of you who don't squirt actually having real orgasms.

[Neko_Chan]

Thank you.

[AustinMan]

Why would you want to? Squirting is very erotic.

[PrincessTae]

I don't mind squirting, but I'm a control freak. I like to be in control of what I'm doing & when I squirt I can't control what I'm doing. O would like to be able to control when I squirt, how much I squirt, & I would like to be able to stop on my own... that's all :-)

[AustinMan]

Give that up, sister. If he's a dominant lover like me, with a little sadistic streak, I can imagine how much fun it would be to bind you and just make you cum when I wanted and spank you when you didn't. ;)

[turnpost]

I back what Austin says as well. PrincessTae your comment is really hot lol. I wanna take your control lol. Consensually.

[jmmmfi]

I squirted this morning... into an old sock

[Anonymous]

"Why don't you work like meeeeee!"