My guy ignores all my sexting attempts. What should I do?

[GinaWee]

When we first know each other through chats, there always be a sexy time chatting and I really enjoyed it. Our relationship has been on and off but a year after the first chat we barely talk about sexual thingy. Now (3 years already) our relationship has been satisfying despite the long distance. We make out more and more passionately everytime we met (oral sex only because I decide to do intercourse after marriage and he understands). I see him as a future husband and I will proud to say that he sees me as a future wife too. We text regularly about daily activities but he would always ignores all my teasings. Not even once he would response! I'm now craving for the old time sexting, badly. What do you think happened? What should I do?

[YaBoy]

Four things to say:

Three years is a long time... there may be something unhealthy about your relationship if you have not married yet.

He may not be responding, because he wants to respect your decision on waiting till marriage, and dose't think it is appropriate.

He may not be interested any more. (cheating?) but don't jump to conclusions cuz that has the potential to ruin relationships.

What i would do is ask him why. men are generally very direct uncomplicated creatures. ask "why don't you like to sext anymore?" based on his response you can determine why with much more accuracy. if he strait up says that he wants to respect you, then he is most likely telling the truth. but if he lies! like "oh it just doesn't excite me anymore" then you have a right to be suspicious. take this with a grain of salt, for i do not know you or him, so i could not accurately asses what the situation is. both options could be wrong. but what matters most, is just ask him.

[GinaWee]

Thank you!

[YaBoy]

no problem :)

[Anonymous]

I think we men are lazy at texting. When I get a sext I either give really short responses, or won't text back. Sexting was fun when I was younger though.

[GinaWee]

Even if it's your significant one?

[GinaWee]

Is there any condition you think you might finally response and play along the sext?

[silver_mirror]

3 years? Why don't you just get married. Sexting is not fun if you're not have sex.