Does Sex get better over time?

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So I had sex somewhat for the first time a few days ago. I've been "Penetrated" before but not fully so technically not a virgin but I didn't feel officially not a virgin if that makes sense.

So I was quite anxious and not really in the mood. He got it in but I could still feel myself tightening due to just being kind of nervous. It didn't hurt but I honestly just kind of laid there... thinking of food. Afterward I freaked out because I was like omg... I didn't have fun at all. Why do people say sex is so fun. Before I did it, I was reading about how women gasp at the first penetration and how it feels so good, full and warm. Yeah... not me. So whats the deal, is sex going to get better or am I a weirdo?

JohnScofield787 · Accepted Answer

Not a woman here but a few thoughts:

1) don't think you are a weirdo. My first time SUCKED big time, and not in the sexual way. I was naive and inexperienced and so was she. Both of us wished we could take it back.
2) perhaps you weren't ready yet and still aren't That is OK. Who says when ready is ready? What works for you maybe 145 or might be 45 or might be the day you get married. It is your business and yours alone.
3) Generally speaking (and in my experience) am woman that feels comfortable and loved with a man that is willing to explore and understand her body is going to have a far better experience than a woman that has a dude pushing her and he just gets his thing on.

So yes it can get better, 1) when you are ready and 2) you have a partner that takes making you happy a priority.

shessoheavy · Accepted Answer

Some people do not really find sex that interesting or fun, I am such a person. I am Asexual, have you ever heard of that?

SammyGurl · Accepted Answer

I loved our first time, he made it special for me, so loving and caring. Our first time pales in comparison to what we have now. Sex gets so much better, you communicate more, you're more daring, you try new things, for us our love is deeper, sex is an expression of that love so it gets better. As much as I loved our first time, I wouldn't go back from what we have now for anything in the world!

KitKat95 · Accepted Answer

I didn't enjoy my first time... or second... or third... or any time with my first guy haha. I thought for the longest time that something was wrong with me and that I would never enjoy sex. Boy was I wrong. Turns out he just wasn't good in bed because the second guy I have had sex with is awesome.

staciebee · Accepted Answer

It gets SO much better. Most girls will tell you that their first time was lame.

Aaron_Stone · Answer

🤦‍♂ Do you even masturbate?
You need to be aroused first in order to feel pleasure of sex.
Even man can't feel pleasure if he isn't in mood and thinking about food or something else.
Watch some porn, get excited, get horny for sex then start sex.
I wish I won't find girl who thinks about food 🍴🍕🍔 and other stuff while having sex instead of being horny prior to sex.

scrap422 · Answer

My 1st time sucked. It gets a lot better I'm sure it was the guy that sucked and didn't know what he was doing. It sucked for me because we both wanted too have sex but her mom was on the way home we were just worried

Anonymous · Answer

I've also never enjoyed sex even though I've had it a number of times with the same person.

Anonymous · Answer

Stick to older guys and you will have some great experience,

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