If I give him all the sex he constantly hounds me for on demand why does he still jackoff?

[leslielynn]

My boyfriend and i have lived together the past 7 months. He loves sex, and lots of it. We have sex anywhere from 2-5 times a day. He gets it on demand, how ever he wants it. I am a freak so he gets ANYTHING he wants from me whenever he wants it. But i have caught him hiding in the bathroom watching p*rn jacking off on the shitter after weve done it a few times. Wtf? Sometimes he does it literally 5 min after were done. I dont understand it. Sometimes i dont feel like having sex everytime he wants it, but i still do. It just irritates me. Why do i have do it so much if you're just going to hide to watch p*rn and stroke it? How many nuts a day are "normal" for a 23 yr old? He says when he watches videos he pretends its me. Oh bullshit! Why does he jack off and have sex so much and what goes through a guys mind when he's watching p*rn? Their girlfriends or whoevers is on the movie? It also makes me worry he will cheat because he's always so eager to bust a nut.

[footballfan993]

Your boyfriend shouldn't get it whenever he wants. Don't just give him sex if he wants it and you don't. It seems that he might just be using you for sex if you just give it to him whenever he wants it.

Per your question, I've never lived with my girlfriends, but even when I did have sex, I'd still masturbate, not immediately after having sex, but I'd do it, when we were away from each other, or to send her sexy snapchats of me. does your boyfriend ejaculate when he is having sex with you? If he doesn't want to ejaculate in you or in a condom or whatever, maybe he goes to the bathroom, and watches p*rn so that he can ejaculate in the toilet and not risk getting you pregnant?

[leslielynn]

Yes he ejaculates, my tubes are tied. No risk for pregnancy.

[AustinMan]

He clearly has an extraordinary sex drive. Congrats on being there for him. That said, it's a lot of effort to have sex whereas spanking his monkey is low effort since he doesn't have to take anything but how it feels into account. Stop worrying!! Just enjoy sex with him. He doesn't do it to spite you. He does it because he's impossibly horny. Aphrodite herself couldn't completely meet this man's needs.

[AustinMan]

Thanks for the MHO. Hope you feel better. One thing I neglected to say is if you catch him jacking off, jump in and tell him to be as selfish as he wants. You'll both have a good time.

[trina1970]

its because he is in his prime now. You won't hit yours till your late thirties. Then you will want it all the time and he won't. Just the way it works dear. Thats y there are so many cougars out there. Facts of life

[MadeInAmerica]

Pretty sure he has a problem. Sex addict and finding someone like you who will bow to any of his sexual needs aren't helping.

[leslielynn]

I just try to keep him satisfied. I guess i figure if i keep him satisfied he won't look somewhere else to find it

[cahdee]

It may be WHAT they do that you don’t. If you want him 100% to yourself so to speak, don’t say no, ever, and don’t judge him about the stuff he chooses to do to you. And if he still jacks off, offer to let him finish in your mouth or on your face so you can participate. That’s what my wife does and I never stray or watch other women. Most I’ll do is watch our videos and have her swallow the result.

[Dionysos]

Because guys are horn as he'll at your age. Nature if the beast. You'll catch up a few years before menopause hits.

[leslielynn]

Ok, so whats up with the p*rn thing? What goes through a guys mind when watching it? The p*rnstar (obviously) or his gf? Also he looks up some weird p*rn ... girls pooping and peeing and even animals... its weird

[Dionysos]

Sounds like he's a pervert. It's a common trait in folks with penises. The scale goes like this: peeing is kinky. Pooping is really kinky. Animals are in the freak zone. Hide your dog, lol!

[leslielynn]

Lol no shit! I mean i do all types of kinky fuckery. The only thing i won't do is shit on his chest. Thats where i draw the line, thats disgusting! I just dont understand the need to get off so many times a day. Does it get better with age? Maybe i need to find someone closer to my age.

[Dionysos]

I'm in my 40s and I still need a couple big Os a day. Sometimes more. If he's OK filling the difference in your sex drives manually, u on should be ok. Don't let him pressure you into having see you don't want though.

[leslielynn]

Sometimes i tell him to just rub one off, but he insists on sex. I just dont get it. Im 30 years old (i accidentally hit the wrong year on here when i signed up and i can't change it so it might say im in my early 20's) and never seen this shit before. he's annoying!

[Dionysos]

Sounds like something you need to talk out. You can't change how often you get horn though, or tell someone not to beat off without giving them another outlet.

[bestadviceguy]

ok, so you've been doing great, lots of sex, lots of variation, and often. how often and when do you see him doing his 'extracurricular' activities? is this new?

he seems to be into some sexual activity a bit more at the end of the spectrum... can he have a heart-to-heart and tell you what's up? tell him your fears... put it all out there... what will he say/do?

[leslielynn]

He does it every single day at least 1-3 times. I have told him it annoys me. I sometimes tell him to rub one off when he asks for sex (because i know he's going to anyways) but he starts being a cry baby so i give in.

[bestadviceguy]

I see... this is a serious issue, especially if you're giving in too when he whines about it... do you feel he is 'the one'... how much work do u want to put into the relationship and how much do you think he will do, if you keep getting upset and this doesn't let up?

[leslielynn]

I wouldn't say he's the one... but i do love him and it seems like i am the onky one who does the trying. But sometimes i wonder if its love or lust... i really dont know. Everytime i kick him out i let gim come right back bc the thought of him being with anyone else makes me sick to my stomach and i start to get psycho just thinking about it.

[bestadviceguy]

oh, you've kicked him out before, ok, well, I think you need to work on letting him go, if you're the only one trying, don't worry about what he could 'get' with another woman, I would encourage you about what you're 'missing' with the right guy, especially a woman like yourself who's willing to put up with a lot... you know, relationships, good ones, have some bumps, but a good man should always listen to his woman, I'm being serious, and should want to 'help' the relationship in any way possible... you deserve a man who loves you for everything you are...

[Koji8123]

Sex drive. Can't help you, just a thing. If he's hounding it for you, consider leaving.

[JackKerouac77]

THAT BOY MIGHT BE A SEX ADDICT

[leslielynn]

Yea ya think! Should i be worried he'll cheat given the opportunity?

[JackKerouac77]

No, but you should speak to him about this troubling behavior. If he refuses to compromise or communicate, your relationship might be ending.

[Anonymous]

He is young and has raging hormones. Let him be. I used to bust 8 nuts a day at his age.

[leslielynn]

Jesus! Thats a lot! I went through the history on his phone (he goes through my phone all the time too) and he even watxhes p*rn at work in the bathroom... is that normal too?

[Opinion Owner]

Heck yeah it's normal. I am 44 and can go about 3 or 4 rounds with sex and do another one or two by myself.

[leslielynn]

Wow! I have only gotten off twice out of the whole time we have been together. I just do it for him & i maybe get myself off once a week or every two weeks.

[Opinion Owner]

He doesn't go down on you?

[leslielynn]

Yes he does, but he's obsesed with my asshole so he only wants to 69 so its in his face and i can't get off that way.

[Opinion Owner]

Please tell him how you want to be pleased. Nothing is worse than a selfish lover or one that doesn't listen.

[leslielynn]

I have told him. Sometimes i get so irritated i want to cry. He always says come on baby i want that asshole in my face u know i love that ass. maybe i should cut him off until he gives more effort on his end?

[Opinion Owner]

You should for sure. I would never neglect my lady like that.