Girls: How long is long enough? (Not a penis question)?

[Anonymous]

So how long does a guy need to last for you to be happy with it? How long would you prefer him to last? How important is to you?

[selfishstars]

I prefer that he lasts long enough so that both of us are able to orgasm. I can orgasm rather easily, and through vaginal penetration alone (which isn't the case for all, or even most women), so for me, 10-15 minutes is great. It's nice to go for longer occasionally, but I don't expect that every time... and sometimes going for too long can start to feel uncomfortable.

If he does orgasm before I'm able to, then I appreciate it if he helps me reach orgasm in another way (fingering, oral sex, toys).

[KimmyB]

Honestly, there isn't a set time for how long it's *supposed* to last. Anywhere between a minute or a couple hours. I think the more important thing is the passion/enjoyment/closeness/connection/everything else that goes along with it. However long it takes is how long I like :o)

[BelleGirl21]

I have to admit I opened this specifically because you said it wasn't a penis question lol.
20 to 30 minutes is fine for me. Any longer and I start to think about things I have to get done. Any less and I'm like "are you trying to torture me here?"

[Asker]

So would you not want go again if he lasted 30 minutes?

[BelleGirl21]

Oh, I could go again! :)

[Asker]

But you'd be thinking about other things?

[BelleGirl21]

No, because I'm assuming I'd have a small break in between right?

[TaureanBull81]

@BelleGirl21 20-30 minutes is the perfect amount of time to last in in my opinion too :-)

[Asker]

I need a few minutes generally before I can go again.

[BelleGirl21]

Thanks for mh you giant tease ;)!

[JackKerouac77]

7 hours with exercise in between or GTFO

www.quickmeme.com/.../...32a4db39cd5efe59db73d.jpg

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Optimal time for women is 3-13 minutes. But as long as you both cum, who cares?

[Asker]

Really? More than 13 is non-ideal? I wouldn't thought 3 would enough either...

[JackKerouac77]

Amen

[yaddayaddayadda02]

This is actual penetration. I got it from here:

www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...not-the_n_94789.html

Penetration isn't the whole of sex.

[Asker]

I meant duration of penetration.

[yannet]

It really doesn't matter as long as u both feel good and have an orgasm lol

[Asker]

That would take a while wouldn't it?

[Mgoods]

Until we cum.

[Asker]

How long does it generally take you?

[Mgoods]

Just for penetration? I guess between 30-45 mins. I dunno- I've never really timed that part...

[Asker]

That's a while... is it faster with clitoral stimulation?

[Mgoods]

Most definitely- that makes a very significant difference. I think that would cut the time in half, perhaps by more than half. But every woman is sooo different in that respect.

[thewanderingme]

it depends on the mood and how busy you both are. sometimes a quicky is ok. but generally, if he knows what he's doing 30minutes is enough.

[JackKerouac77]

30 minutes? Weak! ;)

[thewanderingme]

going multiple times is nice sometimes too.

[JackKerouac77]

@thewanderingme Multiple times without grilled cheese breaks in between? Weak! ;)

[thewanderingme]

@jackkerouac77 of course there would be snack breaks in between.

[Asker]

Does his refractory period matter? Is it a problem if it takes a few minutes before he can go again?

[thewanderingme]

@asker are you a virgin? it usually takes more than just a few minutes to get it up again. that's fine.

[Asker]

No, I can generally go again within about 5 minutes (I guess that's more than a few). So it's not frustrating having to wait that long?

[thewanderingme]

I don't always want to go multiple times.

[thewanderingme]

or back to back even. maybe multiple times in a day. I don't know usually once then passing out while cuddling.

[Anonymous]

"Baby just make me cum, and then don't make a sound." - Weezy