I prefer that he lasts long enough so that both of us are able to orgasm. I can orgasm rather easily, and through vaginal penetration alone (which isn't the case for all, or even most women), so for me, 10-15 minutes is great. It's nice to go for longer occasionally, but I don't expect that every time... and sometimes going for too long can start to feel uncomfortable.
If he does orgasm before I'm able to, then I appreciate it if he helps me reach orgasm in another way (fingering, oral sex, toys).0 1 0 0Honestly, there isn't a set time for how long it's *supposed* to last. Anywhere between a minute or a couple hours. I think the more important thing is the passion/enjoyment/closeness/connection/everything else that goes along with it. However long it takes is how long I like :o)
0 0 0 0I have to admit I opened this specifically because you said it wasn't a penis question lol.
20 to 30 minutes is fine for me. Any longer and I start to think about things I have to get done. Any less and I'm like "are you trying to torture me here?"2 3 0 0So would you not want go again if he lasted 30 minutes?
Oh, I could go again! :)
But you'd be thinking about other things?
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7 hours with exercise in between or GTFO
www.quickmeme.com/.../...32a4db39cd5efe59db73d.jpg1 0 0 0Optimal time for women is 3-13 minutes. But as long as you both cum, who cares?
1 0 1 1Really? More than 13 is non-ideal? I wouldn't thought 3 would enough either...
Amen
This is actual penetration. I got it from here:
www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...not-the_n_94789.html
Penetration isn't the whole of sex.
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3 1It really doesn't matter as long as u both feel good and have an orgasm lol
3 1 0 1That would take a while wouldn't it?
Until we cum.
0 1 0 0How long does it generally take you?
Just for penetration? I guess between 30-45 mins. I dunno- I've never really timed that part...
That's a while... is it faster with clitoral stimulation?
it depends on the mood and how busy you both are. sometimes a quicky is ok. but generally, if he knows what he's doing 30minutes is enough.
0 2 0 130 minutes? Weak! ;)
going multiple times is nice sometimes too.
@thewanderingme Multiple times without grilled cheese breaks in between? Weak! ;)
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