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I had sex with my boyfriends step brother while he was asleep in the next room?

Should I come clean? Part of me wants to but the other half thinks that if I say something I will miss out on great sex. His brother is much larger in that department and knows how to make me orgasm. What should I do?
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For someone in the wrong. You’re really defensive and aggressive. Response to some of the responses below. You have to expect this backlash if you post things like this. In my honest opinion, I think you should end things with your current boyfriend as you clearly don’t give a toss about him and then leave the family to heal. That way you are free to meet whoever you wish to experiment sexually and have as many guilt sexual partners are you like before finding one who satisfies you as he does
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  • How would you respond to a question if it was titled the following:

    "I had sex with my girlfriends step sister while she was asleep in the next room? Should I come clean? Part of me wants to but the other half thinks that if I say something I will miss out on great sex. Her sister is much larger in that department and knows how to make me orgasm. What should I do?"

    So at this point you're only thinking about yourself because:

    A: You don't care about your boyfriend because you're afraid you will miss out on "great sex" with his step brother if you break up with him.

    B: You fail to realize your boyfriend is a human being and has feelings too.

    I swear whenever I read a question about a girl cheating on her boyfriend you make it seem like it's not a big deal. However, if a guy makes a question about him cheating on his girlfriend he gets slammed extremely hard. I sure hope to God you come clean.

    • Well that's why I came here for advice and not judgement

    • You deserve a bit of judgement... YOU FUCKED HIS BROTHER!!! haha

    • I think it's safe to say you really don't need advice on this one. The answer is obvious.

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  • You are in deep shit Mrs Anonymous If he finds out that you did that first of all you will destroy his family AS I ALWAYS SAY NEVER TRUST ANYONE If you asked his brother to have sex with you then you are just a slut If his brother asked you then he is not part of the family "sooner or later he will learn about it you can't hide the lies it maybe takes time to find out the truth but eventually you will learn it" that's what I've learnt by telling lies BUT If your boyfriend doesn't do nothing about it then you meant nothing to him!

    • His brother initiated sex. Well because I'm a woman it makes me a slut but because he's a male it makes him "not part of the family" smh

    • Get in the shoes of your boyfriend and think what were you gonna do if you were about to find out the truth. If he truly cares about you he will beat the crap out of his brother then have a chat with you but if he doesn't maybe you will be the one to get beaten

    • Lol well either way I could not care less anymore I just want the sex

Most Helpful Girls

  • If your boyfriend was so good in bed, why did you sleep with his step-brother? Aren't you too old for that kind of behavior? Yes you should come clean, and I hope he dumps you for cheating on him, because thats wrong but to sleep with his step-brother is low.

    • Too old to cheat? Most people tend to cheat later on in life. Cheating doesn't have a cut off point in terms of age lol

    • I mean to fuck someone while your boyfriend is in the next room. You should have more respect for your boyfriend than that? But your right there is no age limit on being a bad person.

  • Wow that's really fucked up honestly... u should come clean and tell him what u did... it doesn't sound like u care about his feelings at all just about the sex... sounds really shallow... just come clean and see what happens

    • Thanks babe

    • Ur welcome love

  • Your boyfriend doesn't deserve that shit! You are hurting him. If you want to fuck with his brother ok, but break with your bf then. Sooner or later he will know it.
    You are breaking a family, do you get that, dont you?

    • I don't care

  • Why on earth would you do such a thing?

    That's awful and disgusting. Your boyfriend deserves better than you.

    • How'd you know what sort of person my bf is based on what I wrote? That's strange how you came to that conclusion on such little information. Smh

    • I'm not saying he is a good person. I was passing judgement on you not him. If he regularly cheats on you, then I take back my comment.

    • I think you should refrain from commenting if judgement comes first before logic.. Critical thinking clearly isn't your strong point. Perhaps gathering more information before jumping the gun next time is a good idea?

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  • My God... Just what the hell were you thinking of... Hopefully you will be able to live with your conscience.

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  • break up with him. forget the brother. find someone else (not related to him)..

    by the way did he initiate it or you went over? how did it happen..

    • Doesn't matter who initiated, but you asked- he did

  • Disgusting! How can you do such a thing? No wonder why this sexodus and MGTOW topics are coming out more. No wonder why marriage falls apart and men opt out. The best thing you can do is at least BE HONEST! This question isn't even a question tbh. You KNOW the answer already. Your making this issue not a big deal based off of what you said and it's sad. If you tell him it's his decision from there. At least he will respect you for telling him. Besides, better to tell him than him find out or his brother tell him. I feel bad for him tbh. Your selfish and he deserves someone better. You care about the"great sex" and don't even care about his feelings. That's not love last time I checked. It's called CHEATING! Smh

    • I appreciate your input so thanks. Well I like sex and my bf doesn't make me cum so Whatelse am I supposed to do

    • First and fore-most, break up with your boyfriend rather than just keeping him around as an emotional crutch.

    • Thanks

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  • You should probably get out of a relationship if you can't stay faithful...

    • I have considered it

    • Well are you and your bf having problems? Did he cheat on you?

    • Well yes we have been having problems for quiet a while and because of the attachment I still have to him it's hard to leave. He cheated on me before- yes

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  • I honestly don't see why you couldn't have broken up with him *before* you had sex with his stepbrother. At least he'd see you for what you really are and move on with an unimpeded conscience.

    • Well the sex is so much better when it's behind someone's back

    • If you're looking for thrills, you oughta try sex while high or in public. "Sex is so much better" is a poor excuse for completely disregarding someone else's feelings.

    • Well I guess I'm a sociopath then

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  • Fuck you and your question slut. 25-34 years of age? you sure your not under 15? Oh well, sluts will be sluts. Hope your boyfriend fucks your mom, your sis and your scumbag friends

    • Lol wow you are one angry person and why do people think that it's people much younger who cheat lol I have slept with two people in my whole life and yet I'm a slut? A liar maybe but not a slut.

    • the one dude who negged me has no balls. @asker As if one or other isn't just as bad

    • Ok mr perfect, people like you enjoy being lied to because anything that takes you out of our comfort zone either makes you aggressive or just a douche

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  • Lol your BF is gonna have a shitty life once he finds out. He's never gonna trust a woman OR go to any family gatherings ever again!

  • So, the only reason you don't tell him is because you don't want to miss out on sex? You disgust me.

    • I agree here

    • Well most people won't be as honest as me they would use the "poor me" excuse but I'm being real

    • ignore the dumb bitch haha..

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  • Been in the same situation before, it sucks, lol. I mean, if you don't want to lose the sex than don't say anything I guess.

    • What was your situation and I don't want to lose the sex. He makes me have multiple orgasms

    • I'd rather not say it publicly, lol. And I know why I did what I did, you need to ask yourself why you did if the sex is so great.

    • Lol that's cool 😊 I just like good sex and my bf can't perform

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  • if yuor current bf dont fulfill your sexual needs, and your love for him doesn't compensate it, just break up with him without cheating on him. Its better to tell him now, than later. u r taking cheating very lightly without the emotional hurt ur gonna make your bf.
    That said, I'll understand you if you are so very sexually deprived and unfulfilled with your bf, but just kos someone is having a bigger dick.. its really bad of you. if u want to tell me more just pvt message me.

    • Well I guess my "love" for my bf overlooked the fact he wasn't the best lover. Many women choose love over good sex but later down the line it comes back to bite you

    • i agree, in a relationship, physical ( including sexual), mental and emotional fulfilment and balance must be there. Yet, still.. if u dont get that , nice way is to tell the bf :).. tell me why he is so bad in sex!!

    • He just doesn't know my body well enough and it's always over so fast which is annoying.

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  • then you're a bitch..

    • I'm sure you girl is fucking someone else

    • good for you... fuck you and your "social power" lololol..

    • Nice

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  • Simply break up with your bf. And find someone else to make you cum.

    • Thanks

  • Omg ugh, it's kind of fucked up to cheat. I don't believe in monogamy but if yuh practise it you shouldn't break the trust established and with family.

  • Decide which one you want and be faithful to that guy. Or get yourself into a three some with the brothers

  • Your post gave me a STD.

    • You're welcome

  • I've got a big dick

    • It's not like she was posting a wanted ad, lol. This guy...

    • That doesn't change the fact that I have a big dick, I was just stating facts

    • Lol banter

  • You are old enough to know better. You are just a cheating slut. I hope your boyfriend finds out and fucks your mother out of revenge. You're a terrible person

    • Sounds like you have been cheated on at some point in your life.. Mr perfect passing judgement lol

    • Actually never this isn't the point of judging what you did is bad... There is no justifying it you slut. karma is a great thing one day it will find you

    • I'm sure you have been cheated on but just would never know it seeing as us women are so much better at getting away with it

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  • lol, yep, girls are more likely to cheat then men... it's just, men get more of a rap for it because we're more likely to get caught in the act etc..

    • Cheaters have no gender so your generalisation of the female race is silly

    • lol, as I said, women are more likely to do it but guys are gonna get the rap more for it because they're more likely to get caught. I'm just sayin'

    • That's not entirely true but I guess it's individual experience so kudos.

  • My faith in humanity just took an arrow to the knee. Please, tell me your name so I can avoid dating you :)

    • Lol not funny but at least I'm being honest about my reasons

    • yeah, but thats a small prize comparing to what you do. Its like if Hitler admittted to the world: yeah I killed jews because I didn't like them. Great, thank adolf! you were at least honest about it, you maybe killed millions of people, but since ou were honest, we will forgive you! Thats not how it works. And the saddest part is that you are not cheating on him for ''good reason'', and you are not telling him because you are afraid of missing great sex. Thats one of the most stupidest reason I've ever heard. I dont want to be mean, but with that mentality, you should really not try relationship. Focus more on 1 night, get some ''great sex'', and when you will feel more mature and ready, and faithfull, THEN, look for a relation ship. Have a nice day :)

    • Maybe you're right and it's interesting how you compare cheaters to hitler.. I'm trying to understand how the gravity of one thing is the same as the other but hey I'm sure you have your reasons and have a nice day also

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  • How much pipe is the step brother swinging?

    • Well it's long and fat, at least 3 inches larger than my current bf

    • Wow! That's a LOT more dick! lol! How did you end up seeing it the first time?

    • The first time we slept together

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  • And this is why men shouldn't get married.

    • What is that supposed to mean?

    • Are you really that dense?

    • Guess so

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