What does sex feel like for a virgin girl? What does it feel like to a guy to have sex with a virgin versus a non-virgin girl?

[Cutiecakes9]

Hi, im 17 and i think im ready to have sex. My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now. We have talked about it way earlier in our relationship, like maybe when we dating for 3 or 4 months. He said that he will wait forever if he has to. He said that he wants his future to consist of me and he will respect me for not wanting to have sex. He isn't pushy at all. I love him and he loves me. Should i wait? Or should i go for it? What does it feel like when he goes in? What should he do to me to relax me before he goes in? He said he will be really gentle. The thing is he isn't a virgin, but thats ok with me (: anything will help. Thank you!

[Anonymous]

Noo wait... he might be all nicy because he doesn't want to act like he wants only sex when in reality it is what he wants... I would suggest giving it a few more months. if sex was only his purpose then the anger and furustration will make him ahh leave you...(actually the fact that u guys talked about it earlier in the relationship kinda made me come to this conclusion) you said he is not a virgin. and I just noticed ur under 18... well to be honest at this age that's what some guys wants to take away some virginity some see a s a prideful thing... how old is he and how many sex partners have he had?

[Cutiecakes9]

Thank you very much (: and he has only had it a few times and it was with one girl. Thank you for your help!

[Opinion Owner]

Your welcome :) aha oh alright... but to be fair and to be honest... I know a lot of girls who ended up losing it to the wrong guy.. mostly after sex their relationships just didn't go well (people get bored that's how people the generation are :p )... well most of them end up regretting the decision they made back then to lose their virginity to that one guy. So anyway my advice for you is wait... it's too soon yet... and also be careful guys aren't always honest about the number of their sex partners. this guy I know... he has taken 6 girls virginity... the last one he did that to he dated her for 5 or 6 months after he got it he left her just few days after.(he claims he is a virgin to every single one of them) Most guys use the I love you card as an access and also I will love you forever and all that nonsense. but ur guy may be the right guy I can't say coz well I don't know him but don't lose it out just yet... wait patiently :)

[Opinion Owner]

This generation*

[Cutiecakes9]

Thank you (: this was an eye opener

[Opinion Owner]

Your welcome :) I hope the best for you :)

[Opinion Owner]

thanks for mho :) so did u go through with it or u took my advice?

[Cutiecakes9]

Haha no problem. You diserved it because your comment was actually an eye opener. Having more people opinions is more helpful. Yours was helpful and My relationship is going well. I decided to wait and he is perfectly ok with that. I still see him being my first. When the time is right i guess. Well anyways thank you so so so much (:

[Opinion Owner]

I hope everything works out well for you :) good that it's working out good for you currently. yea lose it when you feel it's time. :)

[Opinion Owner]

And your welcome

[j0731]

He said he will wait for u 😩😩😩 so precious... u need to be 110% sure this is what u want tho... u don’t want to regret ur first time

[whirlyGirl93]

Imagine putting a zucchini through your belly button...

[Cutiecakes9]

Lol ok (:

[Anonymous]

Don't have sex under age. You've waited all this time so it won't hurt you to wait one more year when you turn 18 and are legal. Trust me I was only 15 when I started and now I regret it.

[Cutiecakes9]

Ok thank you (:

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome. You only get one first time save it for that special someone. Don't just do it to get it over with.

[Opinion Owner]

I did and now I wish I hadn't. But too late.