I need help!! I seriously can only get horny when I have to pee?

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I seriously can only get horny when I have to pee. It doesn't have to be a full bladder if I know I have to pee I can get horny. On a day that I'm at work and have to pee no I'm not going to be like oh I'm horny. My partner helps me out. I can do it myself as well if I have to pee and I'm in bed and start thinking about my partner I get horny. I am very sensitive and my c**t is wayy to sensitive for me to touch. I don't finger myself either. I use blankets or put a towel on a hard edge and rub that. My partner wants to go down on me and I'm nervous because I don't want to pee. My partner was also rubbing my c**t and I said to slow down and be softer but when I make it clear that I'm excited it starts to hurt because its fast and hard on me again. I don't touch myself often I'm the one who usually does the work and get stimulated off of that. I'm also not sure if I've ever had an orgasm with my full bladder its fast I feel so good and I kinda just stop. I don't even know what my question is anymore. But I've had so much trouble and I don't want to be embarrassed and pee and I don't want to stop my partner from going down and telling them to stop touching me it hurts.. then my partner feels hurt... I don't know what to do any suggestions? Also is it weird to "cry" during sex?

RedEagle8668 · Accepted Answer

Many women get extra horny with a full bladder because of the added pressure on nerves and erogenous zones. Remember... if you're healthy... your urine is sterile and won't harm your partner. You may also have a hidden fetish for giving goldnshowers... just saying. You need to talk with him about what's going on because in the end you will eventually stop enjoying sex and that's a travesty
Personally I enjoy the taste of piss when I am giving oral pleasure to women!!

Klaatu51 · Accepted Answer

it hapens to me as well many times.

when i have to pee and i'm bored to go to the toilet (that happens mostly when i'm on my computer) i touch my dick with my left hand and i become horny after 5 mins or so :-P

Nosy_Person · Accepted Answer

You could tell him how you feel. I’m guessing he already knows you only get horny when you need to pee, So if he is getting offended that you want him to stop tell him the full reason. you never know, he might have a pee fetish or be into getting pissed on. Or you might not even pee. Set some time aside on your own and try touching your clit naked in an empty bath with a full bladder, maby you won’t pee your self. No harm in trying.