Pegging? Does it mean my boyfriend is gay?

I have an odd question. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We have ok sex, but when he's drunk and we're having sex, he talks dirty about being pegged by another guy while I watch. is he gay? I know he likes anal stimulation, and we use toys but this other man thing bothers me.
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Do any of you men like when your partner plays with your ass? I heard the orgasm for a male is incredible with prostrate stimulation. maybe its time to get some toys! 😁
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  • I have done some serious research for the last 2 years and according to world most men (especially straight men that values women) are not interested in pegging, its true that men can receive orgasm as well enjoying it but at the same time a lot men keeps it confidential (especially the ones that enjoys it) because its a sexual act feature that most men do not talk about with there guy friends. You mentioned that your boyfriend wants to be pegged by men and that automatically describes him as a mentally Bi curious man to be potentially be gay because any man that engages to pegged another man put them close of experience the real thing. That can effect your relationship unless you accept and want a bisexual man.

  • Yes, to be honest, the added stimulation that you're talking about is incredible, to say the least! He's probably teasing you with subconscious nonsense when he's drunk, but either ways he will sure appreciate you having your way with his bum. Lay him in doggy style and tell him who's boss, and that no one could give it to him like you do, and report results ;)

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  • My husband loves us using toys, even tried a strapon a few times. It's pretty out there kinky. I don't mind the toy during a blow job so much, but he dose cum a lot more. But hubby is not interested in other guys at all. It might just be a fantasy of your mans, but you should be able to keep him happy with toys. My tip for a strapon is get one that vibrates.

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  • I don't think that makes him gay, but if you are uncomfortable with it, as him to chill. Which he can do even when he is drunk.

  • It might just be a fantasy. Regarding the dildo, maybe start with something smaller first?

  • No, not gay
    Yes I like it. Very much... Not always tho, from time to time, to spice things up.

  • In my book. He's gay.

  • He's simply drunk. Just ask him if he is. But if he denies it, you might want to use the drunk effect as an advantage. Or just stalk him, if that's okay with you. :\

    • I really don't think he's gay. Bi maybe. Gonna just let him have it with a strap on one if these "drunk" nights and see how he likes that lol. Thanks!

    • Hehe, no prob. And by your new update, maybe you SHOULD try that. I also heard it was a better orgasm, than the orgasm of girls. :)

  • reckon you ask him in a very sincere manner, if he is then it can be quite the night

  • Mmmmm I don't know sex doesn't define orientation

  • FYI It's only 'pegging' when a female uses a strap-on on the male! Man on man is either bi-sexual or homosexual. just sayin'

  • Sounds like he just wants to have sex with a guy and have u watch and be ok with it. i dont think he is gay but bi yes

  • He probably isn't gay. I do the same dirty talk during sex but it isn't something I really want to try. It's just something that I'll say in the heat of the moment. I've tried pegging before and it is a lot of fun and makes for some intense orgasms. He sounds like he would enjoy it too.

  • Might be bi.

  • Yes I love taking it in the ass from a girl or a guy while the girl is watching

  • all ass play is pretty gay and stinky

  • Only if you are a man it makes it gay. Are you a man? Lol