Delayed ejaculation.. is it a blessing or curse?

[Anonymous]

It takes me forever to cum. I usually take 30 minutes to do so. A lot of girls I've been with think I'm the biggest stud because of it but my girlfriend started noticing it takes me forever when we just want a quickie. I'm athletic and have a lot of endurance so i can make it entertaining for that 30 minutes but I feel it's a curse sometimes.. I don't know any other guys with this problem.

[Anonymous]

For me that'd be a blessing! Right now I'm supporting my (at the most) one minute wonder and it's starting to bring me down! Of course he does other things to please me, and I don't blame him for the problem, but I'm hoping with age it'll get better (: so yeah, definitely a blessing!

[Cirozôn]

Woohoo u r lucky
U don't get knocked out quickly so u can have more time having fun ;)
It is indeed a blessing.. :)

[harakiri]

do you still have to wait 30 mins if you like... don't get off for a whole day or two?

[Asker]

It's always the same. Around 30m. Unless I already got off that same day the. I just won't cum.

[harakiri]

well, i think it's probably in your favor to be this way as opposed to ejaculating prematurely. sex is... more than just getting off anyways. as long as you aren't in pan or anything, i wouldn't be worried about this. quickies are probably going to be more about her getting off since you need the extra time, but that doesn't mean you can't still enjoy it.

[Asker]

Yeah a lot of my sex partners I wouldn't even get off and I wouldn't lie that I came they just assumed I came. I still enjoyed it though.

[Asker]

These were just one night stands.

[harakiri]

i suppose that for non-quickie sessions, you will be able to get off for real. and hopefully that will make up for the times you can't. really though, this isn't a curse dude. lots of guys would -want- this.

[Asker]

You have to have a lot of stamIna to be able to have sex good for 30minutes straight. Feel like if stop working out or eating right or when I get older I'm going to be fucking doomed.

[harakiri]

i wouldn't know :x lol. butbut, are you always doing all the work? shouldn't your gf be doing some of the work too?

[Asker]

She's really submissive in bed I do almost all the work when it comes to penetration. But she will always give me good head for as long as I want.

[harakiri]

alright, so there's some kind of a balance. hmmm. who knows dude, perhaps as you get older, it might become easier for you to get off. it's possible.

[RedThread]

Dude I'm the same way! It can be a curse because you can't just have sex quickly sometimes lol and women feel undesirable if it takes you a long time. When it's on my mind to want to be faster sometimes it takes me even longer too lol

[parkway]

For me it is not a problem. If you came quick you would be complaining. Shut up and know how blessed you are.

[Michael-in-SC]

Most women will like it. It takes me longer to cum the older I've gotten and it makes sex last longer.

[blondfrog]

I'd say 15-30 minutes is a good time for sex for both genders.