Why doesn't my bf touch my boobs at all (small boobs)?

I'm 18 and my bf is 19, and we've just recently started to get intimate. Usually when we make out and stuff he'll get me out of my shirt and bra, but he doesn't touch my boobs at all - only my butt ( a a lot, he really likes that..). He just presses our naked chests together, he doesn't even really look or touch them or anything? And yes my boobs are sort of really small, also due to me being really skinny in general. Is he just a butt-guy or does he just not like small boobs? Or are there some guys that literally just aren't into boobs? Or is he just shy or something? (he's deffo not shy touching the butt) Like I have seen the girls he's dated in the past, and they have small boobs too, and he hasn't ever commented on my boobs either.. And he says that my body is perfect for him - cause he likes me being skinny and stuff Are any of you guys like him?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He may just not have the confidence to go there. Grab his hand and direct it to your boob and a reassure him you like to be touched there and want him to feel and lick them. He may be boob shy. Yes, there are guys that simply aren't much into boobs and are more into legs or bums. Don't be afraid to face him and literally press your boobs into his face and TELL him to lick them or feel them. He may just need some direction from you that it is ok. Have fun with it, make it hot! When I first started dating my wife she gave off a bit a vibe that made me feel like I was doing something wrong when I was playing with her boobs. I never really got any positive reinforcement that she wanted and/or liked it. That is huge. We need those indicators. We aren't mind readers. Simple saying you like it, or a subtle sexy moan is all we need to know we are making the right moves.

  • I'm sure that he maybe tries to touch them with his chest bc he is maybe shy. Try to move his hand to your boobs and see how he will react.

    And I am sure that he looks at them but you dont realise it. That is what men can do well, look at boobs and butts without getting noticed.

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  • My boyfriend spends most of his time playing with my boobs, sometimes i wish he would feel my ass but it's just his preference. If I get on top he touches my butt instead.

    I reckon it's just preference but you could just maybe feel them yourself and it might turn him on and make him want to touch them.

  • When a guy is starting to make moves on you, like kiss you, he goes for the boobs. But after that, it's like they can't let go of your ass.
    Personal experience.

  • Why don't you the next time you two make out, very gently take his hand and place it on your boobs.

    You just never know where this may lead to!! :)

    • Gosh... Thank you so very much indeed for selecting mine for MHO I do so hope it all works out well for both you and your bf. :)

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  • I've got AAs so don't stress.
    To tell you the truth, no guy has ever complained.

  • ask him...

  • My guy is just like that, I've asked him about it and said its cause I have an amazing butt and he doesn't really card for boobs... he does like my back a lot thoe, he says because he gets a better view of my ass... does your boyfriend do the same?

  • I like smaller breasts. Many guys are also turned on by girls butts. Was he a virgin before he met you? Is he kind of shy and needs coaching? Try telling him that some light touching or kissing your breasts turns you on.
    Your thoughts?

  • I adore little boobs. Some guys adore big old gazonga knockers. He might also be trying to not be that guy that gropes a girl's boobs too roughly.

  • Just take his hands and put them there.

  • Maybe he doesn't understand how much pleasure girls can get from boob play

  • I suppose he doesn't feel any urge to touch them.
    I do as im still curious how they feel : never had a girlfriend :c

  • Maybe he just isn't that attracted to boobs? There's butt guys and boob guys

  • Uh... you should probably ask him

  • Cause that doesn't arouse him? May be but u can tell him if u want

  • Im not like that. i love touching every where but maybe he is just a guy that that loves a butt. really the only way to know is to just ask him

  • maybe he doesn't like boobs?

  • well you said you had small boobs... so yeah, that's your answer. If you want him to, then just tell him

  • he is a butt guy and likes your body

  • Well just wondering what do want him to do with small boobs he can't move them like are and a size , and sorry I don't know a lot about bra size. But maybe he likes your but is it thick or what maybe that why he likes it

  • I love boobs. How big?

  • Thats exactly how my boyfriend is and it makes me so insecure

  • maybe he is genuinely not into boobs. there are some men like that

  • Some guys are just butt guys , if your really small he may not want to bother touching them if there isn't much to grab and that's why he will grab your butt instead. You should just ask him to rub them and see what he says or does, I'm sure he will once you tell him