Giving blowjobs? When and how do you introduce it early on?

[Anonymous]

How soon should you go down on a guy? Also, how do I get him to go down on me first? I am always too wet after I have gone down on a guy! I have always been in longer term relationships and so it just came up! But if you've just started seeing someone? Give or take 2-3 dates... how do you bring it up? How would you go about it? Just undo his pants and get to it? Guys... does it ever feel awkward if a girl just wants your D too soon? Girls how would you go about it... prepping the scene that is? Tutorial required!!! LMAO!!!

[Wanttoknow1]

Take your time and get to know the guy. You should only offer BJ's with someone you deeply care about and even then should be done in a way to rev you and him up.

Don't do any deep throat or gagging but rather fit part of his dick in your mouth and use you hand to hold his shaft so only part of his dick can go in your mouth he may end up running his fingers in your hair and squirm up and down and by you holding on to him will prevent him from trying to push himself further into your mouth. Simply do some gentle sucking and licking (be careful of your teeth) for just five minutes or so until you know he is rev up.
You don't want him to release until long after he goes down on you.
Keep the intimacy slow and unhurried the longer he puts off releasing the more intense he will be and that kind of torture will become so euphoric he won't want to release until he can't stand it 45 minutes to an hour later because the euphoria of not releasing creates extreme pleasure. (far more pleasure than releasing in the first 5 or 10 minutes..

[Anonymous]

Just work it in during a hot makeout session. Typically your top will already be off and he'll be playing with the boobs. That pretty much guarantees he'll have a hard on. You could offer to make him more comfortable by removing his pants since they'll definitely be getting tight with a boner. Then once he's out, give him a kiss and start sucking!

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for most helpful! How did it go down, QA? :P

[jessfinesse]

If we're already making out and I want to give him a blow job I just do it, no guy is gonna stop a girl from doing that. 2-4 dates is fine, and I'll also do that if I hook up with a guy but don't want to fuck him.

[summiter]

Every relationship is different. Of course guys love a bj. ... even after a date or two. But don't sell yourself short. Enjoy being with the guy. Maybe start out with a handjob first. Anyway for every bj you give make sure the guy returns the favor. You deserve some great orgasms also! Your thoughts?

[Anonymous]

Be spontaneous is all.