Horny ever since I got a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I recently got my first boyfriend in college. He's super sweet and we can connect on an emotional level. I always thought I was this innocent little girl but whenever I'm around him, I get super turned on (even though all we do is kiss and cuddle) and I get pretty wet that I'm afraid I'm going to soak through my leggings. We're on break so I haven't seen him and lately I've be masturbating multiple times almost every day because I'm so horny. Is this normal? How can I stop myself from feeling so horny all the time?

[samxscholar]

Slowing down your libido can be done, but is something to ask a doctor about! Could be useful if the relationship does develop, especially since guys basically can't physically match girls sexual abilities. (Sex, then sleep / multiple orgasms.) It would be a shame for a good relationship to go down hill because "the guy can't keep up." This isn't about scaring you either. All this stuff is your choice. But seriously, if you want to feel "horny" less, I would consult a medical professional about safe ways to do it, and side effects. ( Could entail weight changes due to hormone balance changes.) Also, yeah, the guy will love to hear about this if it ever come to that. Not even in a bad way. We like to know that you think about us, and that way of thinking about us is awesome, makes us feel more manly, especially if we don't frequently feel out masculinity validated elsewhere.

[Applefan1]

Well even if you did soak though your leggings he will not think badly of it, he will actually be more attracted to you and very aroused that it was him that got you that wet. It is completely normal to be this horny. Your sex drive is becoming more active. I am guessing you are a virgin so you are experiencing how good sexual things feel. You have raging hormones making you this horny, it sounds like you have a high sex drive and this is why you are having to masturbate so much when he is not there. Unless you are so horny it is physically stoping you from doing everyday tasks I would not worry about it.

[James19]

You deserved and got a mho

[Applefan1]

Thank you for mha

[AustinMan]

Getting laid will help a little. Sounds like it's time to chuck your V card. Get on birth control while you're on break.

[funkipunk]

Well it's not abnormal. Guys get horny, girls get horny... nothing really to worry about here.

Just be smart about sex. As long as you don't do anything stupid, then I see no problems.

[AlwaysBelieving]

You're fine. Sounds like you're emotionally attached to the guy which is turning your hormones into overdrive.

[Anonymous]

I'm the same exact way. It's all good. Sex won't stop that feeling it will just make it worse lol.

[Anonymous]

I would just keep masturbating and hopefully with time try to patch things up with your bf. It is pretty normal to be horny, I am around your age so I know hormones are raging.

[Anonymous]

Yes its completely normal. Same thing can happen to me after flirting with a girl online!! (except the wet part lol) XD