Would you be upset/mad if your girlfriend couldn't get wet?

[Anonymous]

I have problems getting wet. I always have had problems getting wet. I didn't think about it much because when I masturbated I always used my saliva but now that I have a boyfriend this problem is bothering me and probably him as well. Whenever we're about to have sex I just don't get wet. I'm super turned on and horny as hell and my guy is amazing but my pussy stays pretty dry. Whyyyyyy? It makes me so sad :( I know guys love girl's wetness and my boyfriend doesn't get to feel how sexually aroused he gets me bc I stay dry :( I don't want him to think I'm not attracted to him because I am big time!! I don't want him to leave me for something like that cause it will probably get frustrating, right? Only time I'm wet is AFTER penetration, ugh. Guys, would you be upset if your girl didn't get wet? Is there anything I can do to change my unfortunate situation, some pills or smth? I wish I was like those girls who sometimes complain that they get too wet, that would be so much better :((

[ImSoSozzled]

My girlfriend kind of has that problem. Her outside barely gets wet at all and inside doesn't really start until I've been inside her for a minute, which I have to do very slowly. I don't think he'll think you're not attracted to him, but I think it would be a good idea to talk with him about it to make sure y'all are on the same page and he understands. I've done a bit of research on the subject to see if I could help my gf and it seems like some girls just don't really get that wet, so you're just going to have to find ways around that (like lube).

[Starrk]

I wouldn't be mad. If my girl had that problem, then I would just go out, buy some lube and problem solved.

Nothing to stress over.

[Asker]

But lube is not the same thing as natural wetness. I feel like a failure that I can't provide my own natural lubricant cause that's how it should be :/

[Starrk]

Nah, you shouldn't feel like a failure, because liked I said, if my girl had this problem, I wouldn't care at all. But if it's bothering you that bad, then Stress, medical pills, condoms, trauma, perfume soap, washing powder, lack of attraction to partner, feeling anxious and so many other things can cause dryness in women. If any of those don't apply to you, then I'll suggest you see a OB/GYN, and they could give you a solution to your probelm. But like I said, its not that big of a deal, so don't beat yourself over it. :)

[dakraziest]

i wouldn't mind but i would like to be reminded to use lube because it can seriously hurt you

[JackSmy]

"Only time I'm wet is AFTER penetration," OK, so make some kind of KY Lube, part of the FORE-PLAY!! Have him just slip in, a little bit, and tease you, while doing other things, of course!!
What's so strange about "Priming the Pump" as a metaphor?

[TheEnding]

That's okay. You can always use lube.

[napoleonebonaparte]

Pee... in my opinion you can try to hold the pee in be for having sex... For two reasons.
First of all it seems that a full bladder can even stimulate you further...
Secondly in the even of you having a little leaking of pee. It could lubricate your vag for a while.. obviously it is not as lubricant as the right fluid... but it is always something. ..

[Caliguy88]

My ex didn’t get super wet and was super tight. I’d always just start with eating her out. I love giving head so it was fine with me.

[Maxemeister]

No problem with it. Just tell your guy it's a condition and that he's awesome

[johnieohm]

legit i have never had a woman who couldnt get wet but i have only been with 3 people in my life in this way

[Anonymous]

you mean like being waterproof? that's super cool, i would put her on the top of my head in a rainy day and no umbrellas needed then!