A lot of females can't orgasm, I heard. It actually took me a very long time to have an orgasm. It just depends on the guy mostly. Maybe try with out a condom and have him pull out, but practice a couple times with a condom until he can control himself. And you probably have gotten close to cumming, if you feel like you're going to lose control of yourself during sex, don't hold back just let everything go. if you feel like you're going to "pee" during sex and you keep yourself from doing it, then you're actually holding back cum. So just let go. And if you don't get this feeling your sex must not be too great! lol And definitely mess around other ways before sex it helps!
I do get the feeling of having to pee but it just never happens. Also, its a lot more pleasurable for me when he goes fast and hard...and the only position he could do that in is when my legs are up, but when they are up, it hurts my stomach a lot when he's doing it..idk y.
When you get that feelings just push yourself to letting go. Maybe try more positions or try once without a condom, but many many females have never had an orgasm. It just depends on the guy and how he works himself in all honesty. But once you come you'll more than likely have an orgasm soon, so just don't hold back when you feel like you're going to pee and you might cum.
Thing is I really don't wanna get pregnant..don't even wanna risk anything. I asked him to promise me that he would never come inside me without a condom because I'd rather die then get pregnant right now. lol But I'll try letting go more often..gotta think of rainbows and unicorns. lol thanks!
If you are not using any other birth control do not use the pull out method even if he does not come inside you you can still get pregnant because there is always a little bit of sperm that comes out before they orgasm. I only use condoms and have no problem orgasming so I would not say it was the condoms that was the problem. You probably need more clit stimulation you can use a toy or you can play with it yourself as Rarity said.
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