Guys: My friends with benefits always stops me from giving him head for very long. Why?

[Anonymous]

Okay so my one friends with benefits always goes down on me whenever he comes over. I go to do the same time and it seems like not even after five minutes he's stopping me, putting a condom on and we are having sex. I actually enjoy giving him head so it frustrates me me when he does that. I have asked him about that before and he said that is because that it feels so good that if he doesn't he would cum. But I sometimes wonder if that is the case because he does that EVERY time we have sex. Why would he stop me from giving him head? And guys would you stop a girl from giving you head?

[PsyNoodles]

Do you know how good you are at giving head? I have some experience in both giving and getting head from and to guys <3 so I know the top of my priorities for both getting and giving are, try not to use teeth (accidental or on purpose) and try not to forget about trying not to use teeth. No matter how good the head is for me, teeth will downright RUIN the experience, the duration depending on the severity lol. Though I'm always ready to go again just have to get hard, look at her pussy, done. I assume this is with most males. I've almost never gotten my teeth on a guy on accident cause I know how much it sucks (no pun intended) to feel any sort of sharp teeth scratching your cock &/or balls. It has happened sometimes and there's usually (just like from me) a quick jerking away response (lol no pun intended wow) where the hips kind of fly back which is just a reaction to get your penis away from danger probably. The problem though is if like she's deepthroating especially the response sometimes causes the frontal teeth to scratch even more, worse when your head is a little bigger than its shaft.

My whole point here is don't use your damn teeth! Guys giving head don't ever screw this up but girls always do (the reason why head from a guy is 100 times better than from a girl, sorry xD)

After you figure that out, just get your mouth wet with good amount of saliva backed up and start some sequence of things like start licking the base of his penis well then bring your mouth up while still licking (use the extra spit so you don't have to stop as much). You can progress slowly or quickly, good to alternate. Like if you do it quickly it could be going from massaging the head with your tongue to going down to the base deepthroating really fast, as if he thrust into it, but he didn't (or to mix it up you can let him thrust into your throat, but both of you need to get really good at avoiding teeth before you try quicker motions.

Hope this helps!

[PsyNoodles]

Oh yeah massage the head with your tongue and use lots of spit! if you lick just from an inch or two under the head up to the tip and kind of roll your tongue around the top it feels fucking amazing. Do you need more specific examples like this xD

[PsyNoodles]

Oops wow I think I responded to your question and another I read right before it at the same time here. Eh I don't even remember what the other one was exactly. Oh well I hope this helped anyway xD

[Asker]

I have never used my teeth ever. My other friends with benefits says he hates head from anyone but me, and my ex loved getting head from me. He says I give good head, but that if he doesn't stop me he will cum and he just wants to fuck me.

[PsyNoodles]

Oh does he have multiple orgasms? I like unprotected (I'm careful) and with someone I've already done that with or been doing with for some time already. We can get the discussion out of the way fast. But after I cum once we just use condoms or do oral cause I have ridiculous amounts of semen (I don't get why people want to have this much but w/e) so I'm too afraid of something leaking out and yeah. So if he has multiple orgasms why would he not want to do that first? I just don't get why guys don't like to get head or even give it (I could eat out all day long as long as I cum in between sessions) Sorry I'm just trying to figure this out. He wants to stop because he will cum so he has sex instead? won't he cum inside of you instead then? I don't get this lol

[Asker]

He doesn't have multiple orgasmn usually he needs downtime in between. He doesn't cum inside me because he puts a condom on before we have sex.

[PsyNoodles]

Ah okay I get it. Well shoot this guy's just plain confusing then sorry xD Do you have any more specific questions? Or can you repeat your question in other words? I'm willing to help you out

[Asker]

I don't know, I just wanted to know if any guys have stopped girls from giving them head. I like giving him head and it's just frustrating when he stops me. I get he doesn't want to cum and wants to have sex so he can please me because if he cums before I do he's so apologetic.

[PsyNoodles]

Oh well no then at least I've never stopped and actually haven't even heard of a guy stopping head even to have sex. I mean if I'm really horny I might want to move on but I won't just cancel head it feels great and I don't have to do shit (less I'm giving the head lol). I can sort of relate though cause I've been like in your position (no pun intended) but like eating out a girl who just wants to move to sex already. Either that or menstrual blood is getting too messy jeje xD

[zorro8888]

Unlike women guys can't have multiple orgasm without going through a refractory period which is significantly higher than a woman's. So he actually is telling you the truth when he says that and although you're frustrated now... you'd be a lot more frustrated if he came too early every time and you had no fun.

If you really want to perform oral tell him in advance that's all you want to do with him so he has no worries and you get the excitement of pleasing him.

[Asker]

I did I told him next time he comes over it's for a day and all we are doing is spending all day in bed just foolin around.

[zorro8888]

Fooling around could still lead to sex in his mind try asking him over then just start giving him oral and tell him: This time I just want to take care of you and just let him relax at that point until he ejaculates... it's actually better that way because by the time he gets hard again he should last longer which should make sex a bit more fun!

[Asker]

I did tell him that. I said he was either coming over for a day or a night and that I wanted to give him head and then later we could have sex.

[zorro8888]

Then at that point he should be more relaxed, just make it a point to keep giving him head even if he wants you stop go for the finish line haha Thanks for MH!

[MeganTron]

If he's planning on having sex with you it's logic that he doesn't wanna bust a nut after 5 mins of head

[Asker]

He comes over for hours though, so even if he does, we can easily have sex later on. I'm horny 24/7 and he knows that.

[TheWiseOwl]

He may not enjoy getting blow jobs.

[Error_204]

Ask him. He doesn't you to.

[Anonymous]

Just tell him next time you're going to suck his cock until he cums and then you're going to keep sucking him till he's hard again and then you'll fuck him.

[Anonymous]

No idea, I've had girlfriends give me head for over an hour many times and after they were all done I wanted another blowjob