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I fucked my best friend?

Two days ago I was at his house just chilling with him and stuff, when all of a sudden for no reason at all we began making out. Then before I know it we were fucking in his bed. It was amazing and he was amazing, better than I've ever had it before and he made me cum for the first time through sex. But as good as it was I'm facing some inner turmoil at the moment. I'm so worried that after this we won't be able to go back to our normal friendship. We've not spoken since it happened, when we used to chat basically everyday. I'm just wondering if it is possible for guys to be friends again after this sort of thing happens, or do they look for more? I'm just really really hoping our relationship isn't ruined because of this silly mistake. :( Any help will be greatly appreciated.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • ... Wow...
    You slept with your best guy friend, you're calling it a mistake, you don't see him that way, & you just want the two of you to forget it ever happened...
    I got news for you: You're best guy friend likely has feelings for you. If he didn't, he wouldn't have let it go that far. The relationship, deep down, isn't going to be the same, at least for awhile (if ever). He may go along with you wish of pretending it never happened, & he may even learn to forget. But if he doesn't, & it hurts him to learn you think of sleeping with him as "a mistake," don't be surprised if he has to walk away from you, permanently.
    Do what you need to do, just prepare for what may come.

    • what he said ^^

    • Shit. Does that mean the only option is a relationship?

    • You sleeping with him is either you do have some feelings for him, or you were simply using him in the heat of the moment. I'm giving the benefit of the doubt & assuming it's the former. In that case, what's really stopping you from pursuing anything further with him, than bestfriends? Do you honestly have any idea how he really feels about you? You crossed a line with someone, that by definition, you trusted & cared for. Ironically, that's what most relationships are. Figure out why you really crossed that line, what you really feel about him, & what's stopping you. I would hazard a guess & say you're scared to lose him... at this point that's a very real possibility now UNLESS you be honest with yourself, AND with him. He'll need to do the same.

  • Its possible, but it may take a while. Now you guys have to go back to basics, you have crossed the line friends shouldn't cross. At best, an friends with benefits thing is what is left if you want to go back. To revert back to just friends as you were is going to take a lot of time, awkwardness, and denial.
    First step, talk to him, admit it happened (don't deny it, also don't state if you liked or hated it) but state that you want to go back to being friends. Then brace for the awkwardness.

Most Helpful Girl

  • All that sexual tension unleashing out like a huge tsunami, that both of you couldn't avoid... He's just processing that your friendship has moved up a notch... Now what? He is prolly thinking... friends with benefits , friends or just break off with you for good.

    • Not likely. Guys won't cross that line with best female friends unless they have serious feelings for her. He's running through the relationship possibility as well... & probably freaking out a bit.

    • Duh you're not him.

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  • Why not give a relationship a go?

    • I don't like him in that way, I don't think I could see him as my boyfriend. He's like family to me.

    • Then why fuck your family

    • Well most relationships, real ones are based on friendship anyway. If you are going to boink you may as well make it official. And if it was the best ever, you are quids in.

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  • I don't know the only way it can go back to normal is if he feels the same as you and doest fancy you.
    But if he said that that would probably make you start to fancy him lol.
    Chances are he will play along with what you want to start with but will eventually try and instigate sex with you again. :)

  • Yeah, go for the relationship. You obviously have a lot in common to be that close of friends with him, and you had immediate sexual compatibility and passionate sex. You do realize how much pretty much everyone on the planet is after something that you have a chance at right now?

    I would kill to be in a situation like that, act on it!

  • Friends again? Hard to say , especially if he find u hot in bed , he will want more, and i think u also feel same way

  • Talk to your friend about it, if he let things go that far he clearly has feelings for you, just talk to him about it

  • Talk to him about it.

  • it is common to be carried away..

    dont worry about it..

    how long he is?

    do you feel horny thinking about him?

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