DO guys get grossed out when they can feel that the girl is wearing a pad?

[Anonymous]

I was with my boyfriend in bed and we were making out. Then he starts rubbing my ass and went to touch more and I stopped him because we agreed not to have sex yet. Also I was on my period and had a pad so I was worried about him feeling that and being grossed out. Especially when I had my bum against his groin and we were cuddling. Do most guys get like disgusted by feeling that the girl has a sanitary pad there? I know most guys are grossed out by the thought of periods. I felt like I had to stop him from feeling down there even though it was through clothes. Also whats the best way to stop it progressing to full on sex if you are making out? I said 'we should stop' but I wasn't sure what the best thing to do was.

[funkipunk]

No, wouldn't be grossed out. We know girls either are wearing them or tampons, so it's natural. Besides if we're already feeling in and around your underwear, it's pretty clear we're TURNED ON, not turned off. The guy finds you hot, don't worry about him feeling your pad; he won't be turned off by it.

If you're not ready for sex, then just tell him bluntly how you feel. He ought to respect you, and not proceed any farther beyond what you're comfortable with then.

[Asker]

thank you :) initially he said he wanted to wait a bit for sex as we've only been dating for a relatively short amount of time. but now I kinda do wanna wait a bit and get more comfortable with him first cos I'm a virgin (I don't want hi to know this). But I don't want him to think I don't want sex with him either or that I'm weird for wanting to wait a bit. I don't know how long is too long to wait (we are 22)

[funkipunk]

Just tell him exactly how you feel. Like I said earlier, he ought to respect your wishes :)

[DaGuy]

If he is mature at all then it shouldn't be a problem. Most of the time only boys are grossed out by it and men don't really care or they just accept it.

[Asker]

thank you

[lovestruck12]

why don't u try tampoons

[Asker]

because I was very very light too light for them

[Sigma88]

No decent man is going to flip his shit & get grossed out over a woman having her period. Seriously, if anything, a decent man knows & understands it can be an uncomfortable time for her & is likely wanting to try & make her as relaxed as possible. Give men some credit.

And "we should stop" is good enough.

[Asker]

thank you! I didn't know whether I should have told him before that I was on before he felt I was wearing it. and good :)

[TadCurious]

Guys understand that girls have to manage their periods with pads or tampons (or the cup). It's not gross. It's just a part of life.

[Asker]

thanks :)

[Error_204]

No. No one cares.

[Asker]

good!

[JackKerouac77]

No, unless they're 16.

[bakuro]

I like to have sex with pad on...
I do sex with my gf when she is bleeding. ..

[Asker]

thanks for your reply