Anything is possible but that's a tall order.
Can you find a guy who wants you for you and wants you sexually as well? Much easier.
Some guys just want sex.
Some want sex AND emotional intimacy. And some of that group will be willing to wait for a girl to be ready (or for some guys even as long as marriage). Very few guys though will be willing to wait a long time if you've been promiscuous in the past. This isn't because you're damaged goods (sadly there are some guys who think that, but they will ONLY want sex now). It's because they know that you're quite comfortable having sex with guys you're attracted to. So if you're a couple and you're not interested in having sex with them, they will feel like you're less attracted to them then you were to past guys.
If you want to stick with boyfriends and serial monogamy now stick with it. You can admit if asked that you used to be more promiscuous and didn't like that lifestyle. But if when you ARE dating a guy you don't want him, he's going to interpret it as rejection, not 'not ready'.
You may be wondering how you can tell if a guy just wants sex or actually likes you as well. 99% of the time it's really not that hard if you watch their behavior (not just what they say). Not very many people are really that good at being lying manipulators. Most people who get tricked ignored obvious signs because they WANTED something to be true. Of course some people are paranoid! Try to step back, look at people's behaviour and think what you'd tell a friend who was ring treated that way.
if he knows about your past and still wants you its most likely for sex.
i honestly wouldn't deal with anyone with that kind of a reputation and I've my heart to someone who could crush me with just one fall back going back to her ways whether we go through a rough patch and she sleeps around to get comfort or to avoid the issue etc .
i m sorry, just being honest. i suggest after really chaning your lifestyle, you dont talk about it or reveal to your future lover who probably know about your past. just hearing your past may hurt him and cause uneccessary suspicion and insecurities. i say necessary assuming youve changed for good.
not judging but being real and heling you understand.
give my heart to* know about your past*
Be mature about it. Be open and honest with him about your past. Tell him that you're hoping your past won't change his view on you and that he still likes you for the person that you are. DO NOT tell him you'd prefer to wait until such and such time to have sex. Don't put a time stamp on when you feel it's appropriate to sleep with him. Instead tell him you'd much rather wait until you are comfortable and ready to take that step.
If he truly likes you he won't have a problem with it. Not putting a time stamp on it leaves him to not expect you to "put out" by a certain time. By leaving it a bit ambiguous it doesn't mean you'll be ready today tomorrow or 3, 4 months from now. It just means whenever you decide to take that step.
He'll eventually show his true colors with time. A wolf gets hot wearing that wool for too long!
I used to be the same way you just need to find a guy that won't give a fuck about what you did before and wants you for you all guys want sex sometime in the relationship just don't get the one that only wants sex I suggest one of your dude friends they are always there
How old are you by the way? When I was your age and behaved liked that my parents would whip my ass!
im 16, and me and my parents dont really get along
Oh... I was a hoe when I was your age too. Just curious what age did you lose your virginity?
when i was 14 i was raped and thats how i lost it
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!You said "I just dont know if he likes me for me or if he thinks im going to have sex with him all the time"
Could you not just sit him down, be serious and ask straight up? Assuming you can trust his answer and read guys well when they repsond
well i dont wanna sound rude when i ask, he's a good guy and i dont want him to think im assuming things
Honestly, it wouldn't be rude to ask that or similar. Just ask it nicely not demeaning. Nothing wrong with assuming things every now and again too.
possible? yes. just let him know you wanna take it slow. if he leaves fuck that nigga
We all have a past, he doesn't need to know yours. If he already does, explain your new behavior, he'll dip only if he's a douche.
you are still a slut :*
If you're not picking them up at a bar, then yeah!
well since im not 21 i won't be picking anyone up at a bar lol
That's a start! How about this? Try to find a nice guy and if he tries anything fast, stop it right there!
sounds like a plan!
It's very hard to change your reputation. He at least will want to fuck you. Anything more than that is possible but not certain.
Sure... If they are gay...
Just be you and if you want a guy to respect you more don't give it up so quick and put your value in things like humor, kindness, intelligence and morality.
Well, if he comes on to you, and you say no, and he stops talking to you, then that's how you know... you got to know how to say "no" though. Especially because if he continues on, it's then, rape
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