Is it wrong that I want a sluttier girlfriend?

I've been in a very loving and great relationship with my girlfriend, who I want to marry. But over the past few months, I've developed a fetish somewhat like hot wives. We currently have a dom/sub relationship in our sex life where she enjoys being the sub and I enjoy being the dom. This has added to my fetish, now all I can do is just fantasize about her dressing slutty and wearing no panties in nightclubs while being taken advantage of by other men. Don't get me wrong, to me it's all about her comfort. I'd still throat punch someone genuinely bothering her. I just want to be present while she gets taken advantage of and fucked by other men to monitor things and maybe join in. I already brought this up with her, and she adamantly said no, even though I kept pushing. She might love being submissive, but she knows how to be firm when she wants to. Anyways, after a while I accepted the fact that she will never fully satisfy my fetish and sleep with other men, but I still place subtle hints for her to dress sluttier (which she hinted back that she might enjoy that) and tease other men (probably not). Now is it wrong for me to want this? I really love her and I sincerely want to marry her. I just want some more sexual excitement as long as we both agree mutually. Her comfort is first on the list after all.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Part of relationships mean compromise, and I think that's what's needed here. I say talk to her and maybe you two can come to a compromise. It sounds like she might already meet you half way (ie dressing "sluttier"), so maybe you can be happy with that for now? Or maybe she'll have other suggestions for you that she would be willing to do that might work also? But I'd definitely talk it over and figure something out if she's the one you intend to marry because you don't want something like this to fester and become a "problem" down the road. You don't want to figure out later that she's not the one for you, love her or not.

  • No, we all want a sluttier girlfriend, they are funnier :) I suggest you to find one, but be careful with sexual diseases

Most Helpful Girl

  • You are the same with my ex bf. I think it's totally normal

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  • It is wrong of you to do.

  • Good luck with that.

  • Your personal choice nothing to be wrong

  • No, but be careful what you ask for.