My GF tells friends my penis size even when I told her not to. Should I break up with her?

[Anonymous]

My GF tells friends my penis size even when I told her not to. Should I break up with her

[justbanANNAz]

ouch=/ trust abused.

u have to think of this carefully tho. if u love her for a thousand other reasons, dont let this ruin ur love and explain to her firmly that u dont like this.
if she doesn't get the message and seems to disrespect ur trust by revealing ur private info, then u really need to do urself a favour and leave. ur call.

[LizNeedsHelp]

I'd be pissed. But losing a relationship over that is kind of a lot. She needs a lesson on privacy and respect

[TonyRyan]

This happens to me a lot more than I would like but... we can't control each other. It's disrespectful, yes, especially if you've voiced your offense but initially you have to look at other things before just dropping her, if you like/love her enough to want to make it work.

[TadCurious]

What would be interesting to know (although admittedly painful) is just how you know that she told her friends about your size. Did it get back to you from her friends? I'd find that pretty hard to take myself.

[xoxocaxoxo]

that's just something girls talk about no big deal

[Asker]

That doesn't make it right it is still immature and disrespectful

[Sigma88]

It be like guys talking about how our girlfriends' labias look. She can't keep your privacy, because "it's just girl talk?" No, I'd become less comfortable telling my girlfriend anything after that, & I'd consider ending it.

[chocolatedragon]

What? Can't let your woman brag about her man's package?

[wintergirl86]

Thank you! That is what I was getting at.

[kabooms]

Bragging is one thing but persisting in publicizing it when he has vocally shown his disapproval is quite another.

[itscoolguy]

You would only consider breaking up with her if you weren't happy with your size. Zip up your man suit and give her something to talk about.

[Michael-in-SC]

It depends. Is she bragging about it or making fun of it?

[wintergirl86]

No. Girls talk. We talk about everything.

[Asker]

But its so disrespectful. I don't like dating disrespectful people

[srslyly]

Right. What she said. You are male, which means you are inferior. You do not have the right to your own preferences. You are required to continue dating your bitchy girlfriend who does not respect you, under penalty of having to pay for her dates with some other inferior male.

[wintergirl86]

Who said? I'm sorry I didn't think it was a big deal. When girls tell other girls that. They are bragging.

[Asker]

I am talking about girls criticizing their boyfriends

[wintergirl86]

Ask her why she did it. Tell her how you felt about it. Most girls do it to brag. I guess that's what I thought she was doing.

[Sigma88]

You dating a guy doesn't give you the right to discuss his details like that, to your friends, because it's "just girl talk." Ask your man for permission first. Show him just a little respect. Or, guys can certainly take a page out of girls' book & start talking about your business with our friends. Guys tend to be nice when it comes to that. We don't have to be, since it'll just be "guy talk." No big deal, right?

[wintergirl86]

Now I'm getting attacked for one little comment! Gee thanks! I'm so sorry I said it. For the last time I thought maybe she was bragging about it. I myself have never done this. I have had friends who have. All were bragging. No need to attack me.

[kabooms]

They do however bring up a good point about double standards. I certainly think it would be frowned upon greatly if a guy went into intimate detail about his partners vulva with his friends. Discussing every unique part of her lips, the size of your clitoris, the tightness of her pussy, the pinkness of her vulva, the wetness of it, etc. Very few women I feel would want their partner to go into this level of detail with people she doesn't know well, why should it be any different in reverse. He has expressed a desire that she not publicize his body and she should respect that. Not meant to be an attack but rather an acknowledgement that he deserves the same respect that most women ask of their partners.

[kabooms]

That said, I do think people should be able to share these things. I do however think this situation is unique because the man has specifically demanded a cessation which should be grounds for her to stop bragging.

[Danny1775]

It's none of thier biz. Grow the f up

[Kiwifun]

Nooo... she's proud of of your's. If you don't wan't her to say it then tell her.

[Sam89]

That does seem disrespectful. I wouldn't go telling my friends information about my (hypothetical) girlfriend's vagina, so I wouldn't expect her to do the equivalent with her friends. It's private stuff. Don't rush to break up with her though, talk to her about it first so she knows how you feel.

[Anonymous]

yes if you told her that you didn't want her to tell then she is betraying your trust and privacy. if you can't trust her to respect your decision then whats the point.

[Anonymous]

if you have a small dick, yes.
if you have a big dick, no.

[Anonymous]

Would you tell your friends he bust size?

[Asker]

No I actually respect my GF