Even at my age I recently went on 3 dates with a woman and the last one we ended up making out for about 2 1/2 hrs. the first half in the front seat of my minivan which was really uncomfortable. So i jokingly said "if I know it was going to be so long I would have suggested we go into the back couch" surprisingly she said "do you want to "? So we went in the back. She was not a good kisser but it has been 7 months since I had sex. And with the financial stress I am under I haven't even been jerking off lately. So I was at max hardness for most of it and to a point if she had fondled me even over my jeans it would have gone off. Of course I was hoping for a blow job early on but as time went on I knew it would be so quick I was actually worried because it would be embarrasing. I mean she let me fondle her tits and ass big time and did climb on me and was running her hand all over my chest.
Well when I finally had to say I had to go we got out and of couse some hugs and more kisses. she kept saying "I don't want to stop" well I am guessing she knew what was "UP" literally. even with a longer coat on she kinda put her right leg forward so her thigh pressed against my cock. There is no way she couldn't NOT feel it. then another round of "ok, really gotta go" she did it again and boom... it went off. That was a messy but really nice relaxing ride home. I don't know if she knows what happened but I was thankful she finished it off... lol funny but true story...
You can get a boner from anything though. Something may have aroused you or you just got one by coincidence. Sexual arousal *doesn't mean* sexual attraction.
When your not a teenage it does, those random boners in high school are rare in adulthood.
Oh, ok. Maybe you were turned on then. It would never determine whether you want to just hook up or not.
No i would find it flattering. especially if the guy di not say anything till later like after/if we started dating and did not act on it. like he was able to resist the urge to ask/ do anything the first date. I would be kinda turned on at t he thought that he had to wait and had a erection.
No, but on the first date he can angle himself so he's not rubbing it all over us. More or less, on the first few dates your boners should be your business. I'm put off when a guy intentionally presses it against you too soon.
Welll she came really close into me when she hugged me, like crotch to crotch.
That's be more of incidental contact and no big deal. Some guys are too aggressive about it, though.
= sexually attracted, sexual thoughts
and not very... in control of such things
So, OK I vote more positive than negative, so long as it's not akin to those dog pests that hump visitor's legs w/o discipline
Lmao. This.
No only if he kept invading my personal space and tried kissing me goodbye
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What if you didn't talk about sex at all yet, what would that mean?
It means you really like her, she knows, and that great.
Did you have a boner?
Well if that happened to me I'd just think he was sexually attracted to me, I'd be pretty flattered.
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